sorry abt the late reply ...was busy with school work the end of the semester is comming and there are a few projects left to rush

but it is diffcult to not think abt it.
i tired very hard to refrain my myself frm thinking abt this issus
somedays i could not get any slp at all worst still i know i am worrying execissively but i just could not help it
maybe its the fear of authority..the fear of yesteryears
during my childhood days, my aunts were very,very strict on me and harsh as well.No toys no games, i got insulted every day,i got scolded , labeled "stupid" "slow" "fat and stupid" and many nasty things....very hurtful indeed for a 8years old...
my teachers were no better....i used to dread going to school.
life was difficult during my childhood days...i had to endured all of this insult and mental torment.

sometimes i thought abt wat life would be if he wins...no freedom?....no rights?? inother words its the fear of the unknow..
things like this makes u want to peer into the future for answer...

update!!!

i am going to talk face to face to the judge ....on the 10 of march..its a hearing
will it end well for me, any predictions???
hope so

lawer mention that he is the father , thats why maybe he have the advantage
however he also mention that his affidevit did not mention the children at all, only the hse , only the money he payed and money and more money

so its out to me and my brother to lend the final decisive blow....i am so stress.....
i need to be as aggressive as possible, be as strong as possible...but the future seems so uncertain....

today i went to the family court
and guess what happened
my lawyer receive a notice saying that my father lawyer mother had passed away...

erm.what a coincident,,
but i remebered him,he is an old man by any standards look ard 70?
and if his mum is alive she would be a 100 years old?. lol
not mean to be disrepectful or anything.
but if he is delaying for time,he is using dirty tatice