I'm attracted to virgo ascendant women but I don't think they feel the same about me. lol, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 27 · Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2011 11:41 pm

I mean even the virgo ascendants who are strippers have themselves together. They just do the stripping gig as a part time or should I say second job. Virgo ascendant women are picky but it's not about the height, it's more that I don't have myself together and my insecurity of not having myself together. U know like I know Capricorn ascendants need to have themselves together before being in a relationship. Most guys don't care if they do or not but I do.

Posts: 148 · Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2011 6:08 pm

Well, I think that there is always some space given to all of us where we don't have ourselves together. For instance, I know a stripper who is really together. She is an amazing person who just has so much command over herself. But beginning in her stripper career she was not this way (I have no idea her ascendant, mind you). She was a mess (drugs, abuse, etc.) and got herself together. Now she tells me about her coworkers who are so not together. But she uses stripping as easy money. It's just absolutely easy for her to use the job as a tool to bring more abundance to her, whereas before it was probably the complete opposite. But everyone has to start somewhere, including virgo ascendants. As a capricorn ascendant, I don't believe I am together (kinda waiting on my thirties, for the other side of my saturn return really). That doesn't mean I can't be in a relationship. I just know that it means my relationships will be difficult to really gain control over. Nonetheless I give myself the opportunity, even knowing I'm not totally together, to try and bring it altogether while roughing it through all the aspects of my life. I don't believe that every virgo ascendant, or even every attractive woman is going to always necessarily cut you out for not being totally together. It's like the old saying, "fake it til you make it". I think that's where you have to start, really. You can't start with it all together. But I think you can try to mimic it to a degree until you get there.

Posts: 3 · Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2011 4:24 am

caithiggs wrote:

maybe you are attracted to them because they have a quality you desire in yourself (such as having yourself together). maybe if you work on that aspect, you will find that either, a. you are no longer so desperately attracted to that, or b. they start reciprocating the feeling. it's harder than it sounds though, right?

also remember that not everybody is the same no matter how similar their charts are! so first start by getting the idea out of your head that they are not interested in you because of reason a, or reason b, etc. you might be creating the effect you are projecting due to your thoughts and emotions about it. again, harder than it sounds, but think about it! because we're human we are inclined to explain away things we are unsure about, but our explanations can lead to the energy we're projecting to everyone around us, and then we fulfill the negative expectations we are so focused on.

perhaps the next time you approach one of these women, you should tell yourself you feel tall and have yourself together. you don't actually have to be these things to project that kind of energy. who knows, maybe you can turn a few heads ;)

I wish I knew what to do about the reserved and serious capricorns. I am one and don't even know what it is we are looking for in a partner. :(

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I don’t think about her horoscope when I am dating a woman. I just try to understand her character than going for her horoscope. But for the marriage, I make sure to match our horoscope. I think horoscope match is very important for successful wedded life.

Posts: 38 · Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2011 11:48 am

virgo ascendant women are supposed to be one of the most attractive in the zodiac