Below is my natal chart positioning ,

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 0.52 986
Sun Conjunction Mars 7.15 185
Sun Opposition Jupiter 6.28 -127
Sun Square Saturn 3.56 -72
Sun Trine Uranus 3.42 105
Moon Trine Jupiter 5.26 45
Moon Opposition Uranus 8.12 -21
Mercury Conjunction Mars 8.08 105
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 7.20 -48
Mercury Square Saturn 3.04 -59
Mercury Trine Uranus 4.34 47
Venus Opposition Neptune 8.07 -18
Venus Trine Pluto 7.05 14
Mars Opposition Jupiter 0.48 -201
Mars Trine Uranus 3.33 50
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 2.46 50
Saturn Sextile Ascendant 2.57 21
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.02 67
Neptune Sextile Midheaven 1.44 23
Pluto Conjunction Midheaven 2.46 43
1741 -546 1195


-18 Opposition Venus - Neptune

She might lack self-confidence and her ideals are not easy to achieve. In love, she is unstable and deceitful or meets people who are like this. She is easy-going and follows others' wishes in love, and she lets the partner take the initiative.

This aspect indicates a suggestible romantic nature. Being "in love with love" is a strong possibility. You are naturally compassionate and are generally willing to go over the top for a loved one. It's hard to say whether your expectations in personal relationships are too high or too low. On the one hand, you tend to easily accept behaviors in your partners that others wouldn't accept, as you are compassionate and even drawn to people who others might consider trouble. On the other hand, your romantic dreams may be so powerful that you are easily disappointed with the reality of relationships. Deception in love is possible, but self-deception is even more likely. In love, you see what you want to see, rather than what is. Feelings of being used or deceived may come up. However, if a distinct pattern exists in your love life that involves you being let down, deceived or used, it will be especially worthwhile to examine whether self-deception was at work.

The possibility of clinging to romantic delusions is very high with this position. For example, some with these aspects cling to a romantic notion that someone loves them when in reality that person doesn't return the affection. Or, they may cling to a romance that has lost all hope. Another possibility is devoting their love to someone who is unattainable or who is unable to commit. Yet another Venus-Neptune scenario is loving someone who treats them badly, all the while clinging to an idealized image of the partner. No matter what the scenario, romantic yearning and longing, as well as delusion, tends to be the theme. The expectation here is that loving someone requires self-sacrifice. The result is an attraction to relationships that are co-dependent and even abusive. Venus-Neptune people are drawn to victim/savior relationships, and they can play either the role of victim or savior! Dependency or neediness in a partner can be confused for love. In an attempt to love unconditionally, you may too readily sacrifice your own needs and eventually feel used.

The natal chart interpretation is from cafe astrology, but how to overcome this kind of tendencies mentioned in the report?

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Neptune is the alternative You, the daily emerging new and more perfect You.
With Venus opposing it you need to deal with three things. The
fleeting acceptability of things coming at you. You need to daily
redefine your communication especially the feminine components of it,
and finally you need to somehow make yourself more comfortable in your
psychical body, which you may either overly care for or become neglectful. As long as you can accept that there is logic in music, and that you can live by it, you should not get seriously stuck with this aspect. Check for more on this site: http://www.astroknowlogy.com/questions/please-help-me-to-understand-better-my-venus-opposition-neptune

Wow, that's a really negative interpretation of that aspect! I didn't think cafeastrology was *that* bad. Remember that there's a high vibration and a low vibration, an upside and a downside to every sign, house, and aspect with astrology. Which you manifest, the positive or the negative, is entirely up to you. Sure, you could manifest these traits of venus opposite neptune, or you can use it positively to be more sympathetic towards those in need, inspired by the arts, or allow love to be transcendent. In love, one of the main things to avoid with this aspect is being a doormat and letting yourself be used, so learning to stand up for yourself (and using your brain, making sure to ask yourself if this person is truly good for you in a detached way) is key. In your listed aspects, you have sun conjunct mercury (bringing the logical) and both conjunct mars (bringing the assertiveness), so you can use those aspects to help you out.