Hello all.
I am relatively new to studying astrology, although I collected and read a plethora of books on the subject as a child. This is the first look I have made into the subject from an adult prespective.
I am curious to know a little more about how I met my husband and if we were destined to meet and or had some past together. The way we met was very unorthodox and strange. My husband is a foreigner to my hometown. He was literally born on the other side of the world and grew up there, so if it was not for the internet then we would not have met...
but for some reason I always felt unattracted and critical of men in my immediate environment as a child. I felt they were different and unusual, despite being attracted physically to some of the good looking ones (but not acting on those physical, natural feelings, thank god). So, anyways, when learned about the internet then I just naturally felt drawn to meeting guys from foreign places and being friends. I naturally felt an attraction spiritual, emotionally and on the same mental-psychological level as them...when I married my husband then it was like a "wow this is just such a perfect match" feeling.
So, I feel there was some destiny that pushed me to travel to the other side of the world to find him. I want to know how and why...what are the first steps? past life mediation? chart reading? The problem with charts is that my husbands family did not track dates of birth and longitude-latitudes since they come from a background that does not believe in horoscopes and such things...are there any other methods?

Have you tried to find someone who can do "past life regression".  See where you spiritual connection may lie?  No need for birthdates or places using that technique.