lovable pisces
i am so glad to hear your coping ok i hope you get your job sorted, i think this guy is just telling you exactly how it is and that is the relationship is over at least he is being honest so you can now move your life to the next chapter, personally i think most people forgive but it is very difficult to forget and if you do get back together it is not going to be easy you will probably be very vulnerable considering after all the time you spent together he fell for someone else.it is really difficult and it takes two not one for this to work so i just wish you all the luck in getting over this you have to let yourself ajust to this new life without him and move on. best wishes and i hope one day that once youve got your life in order you can say look at me now, i dont need you anymore! x x

Thanks Shoody, Im trying to get my life together now. Im not concerned about if he will ever consider me because he had failed the test of accepting that chance to rebuild and try again. He would have to fix a lot of things before he could ever be so gifted to even win my affection again. But Even then, I dont know if I will want him back by that point. Too slow to make a decision means you are too slow for me. He has shown a few new traits that I lost respect for like keeping secrets from the other girl and not acknowledging that his need to feel close to me means he is not ready to date or commit to anyone. Instead he wanted to do both and I just dont like playing that kind of game. You are either in it or you are not and if you are not, Im going to kick you out of my life.

I just need to keep focusing on me and what I want. That is going to take time. :\

good for you luv i am glad to see you are being strong x