I have been told my expectations of people in my life are too high. I can be very critical and drive myself bonkers wondering about why this friend acts this way or why my Sag friend Nick says he is devoted to me but rarely calls than denies it. I have questioned life since I was very young and I remember driving other kids and my parents crazy as a small child questioning things repeatedly lol :( My best friend is a Taurus n we met when I reached out to her @ 18. She was 28. We look alot alike and have had similiar hardships n lives except she lives in the past more and has fallen victim to drugs in the past and has a drinking problem still. She overwhelms me with emotion. I only talk to her on the phone lately. She has a Libra boyfriend who is an abusive control freak and they butt heads constantly. I have my issues but am basically a peaceful person who doesn't like to be around hostility. My friend fights with her man alot and the situation is stressful so I won't visit for awhile now. I love my friend and am sick of her whining n bullcrap about her deceitful friends and abusive man. 1 minute she wants advice n freedom from these people and says @ times she cut the connection with certain people. I know she is full of crap n tell her lol and sure enough soon after she's in love with her crazy boyfriend again and back to her deceitful friends. She likes lavishness like Tauruses r known for and is focused on money alot so when the man is spending she is happy for a little while than starting up with her rages again soon after. I am sick of giving her unheeded advice and trying to help her. She had a stroke recently and I can understand her because we both have lil family support. I am very insightful and often tell her things and they come to pass. I know she started working again recently and fear she might have another stroke. She lives a very unhealthy lifestyle and she said the doctor recently detected the boyfriend also had a heart attack that he had no idea about. Illness in his family, and both of them butting heads and raging enough, and her alcoholism. I refuse to be around it too much stress. Sometimes my friend spits venom @ me n screws with my head by saying derogatory nonsense than putting me off when I call. I am a Virgo and turn the tables around. I won't call her or answer her calls for days. Than she starts begging me to call. *Never Underestimate Virgo Mentality* LOL. I am getting to the point where I am sick of giving her advice and trying to help her when she keeps doing the same ol crap lol! It irks the hell outta me:( I only put up with her insanity because noone else will deal with her except her crazy lover and we have been friends for almost 20 yrs. I love her but don't know how to make her sit up straight and fly right lol. Sometimes I would like to give her a good swift kick in the crotch. I know though she will continue doing the same ol crap. Are there other Virgos that care too much and go through situations like this?

bonethugangel you have described me completely! i am the same way and thought it was just me thanks for posting this!

Don't be too hard on your friend.  We Sags are awful in keeping in touch.  I'm certain he thinks of you all of the time but its almost like walking the plank sometimes just to pick up the phone and call.  all of my friends and family give me such grief for not calling and i'm a chick.  so give him a little grace  

Haha, I'm a virgo. But no where near like that (I'm in denial, hehe.)...