Well, I do have the pleasure of helping my friends with a variety of problems, most are relationship though, just like the beginner of this post, I too have had friends throughout the years who look to me for advice, one in particular comes to mind, I'll call her H., she has a high humiliation tolerance level.  LOL She is an Aries,  and one of my best friends since the fifth grade. I can not remember all the times she approached guys to tell them how much she liked them, then got shot down, like I said,  I've known her since the fifth grade, so that's a lot of humiliation.:(

When she finally met someone who shares her feelings, he is a selfish, jealous, controlling jerk, and she has spent the last ten years in an on again, off again relationship, this guy is mentally abusive, tears her self esteem down, one minute, then apologizes only to do it again. She seems not to feel she deserves nor is capable of someone who will love her as she loves him. I haven't given up on her. but it sure does irk the heck out of me to continually give the same advice.

I would say I am not a typical Virgo, there are too many signs in my chart for that to be a reality, and yet I am guilty of critiquing, my friends swear by this, but I feel I'm merely pointing out things that are not quite right and in doing so expect a thank you or something, dang.

I have given so many advice, all asked for, and it more than not straightens out their whatever has them in tears, sadden etc., that I plan to become a Psychologist, it gives me a warm feeling when someone listens, takes heed and it works out.

I'm a virgo and have 7's in my chart so I can be very critical of others. Usually when I am being critical of MYSELF then I become more critical of others. So, I try to be nicce to myself and that carries over to other people. And when I'm nice and forgiving with other people, I feel better about myself.  I'm also a recovering addict and know how exhausting it can be to try to get an addict to do anything, especially change. Maybe you're feeling some codependency stuff. I have codependency issues too growing up in an alcoholic family. I think virgos make good codependency candidates because we don't give up trying easily and like to try to control.

I have been study over "Virgo's Behaviour"  and also studying right know with keen vision. I have observe that each and every virgo has versility in many direction. The followings are common nature in virgo:

1. Friendly
2. Know how to fight with stressfull situation
3.Mentaly strong
4.Love to know the things keenly
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...............and so many more.

Prakutha

I have to say Virgos are very loyal.I am an Aries and I love Virgos.

I love it when other Virgos talk about their psycho behavior and thought patterns.  I don't think any other signs other than other earth signs would understand, but only another Virgo would understand best.  

I have dated a few fire signs and water signs, and they tend to drive me nuts the most.  I dated an Aries a couple of years ago, and he drove me nuts.  Now I'm seeing a wonderful man who is also a Virgo, and we are getting married in less than a month.  He and I are almost exactly alike, but we get along so well.  

I don't know if Virgos are the only sign that has to really stand with its own crowd.  I get along okay with air signs, and I can get along with fire signs only if they are acquaintences and not lovers.  Anyone else have this problem?  I might be unique with air signs since I have 4 planets in Libra, but I still prefer other earth signs.