just wondering why are u of this opinion that all girls are not trustworthy and y do u think heart is a rascal ... any way thank u sincerely for ur help and time

Sorry guys, I don't want to be a spoil sport here, just giving my immediate reaction after reading your long posts, hope you wont feel offended.

LOL @srimedico after reading your detailed posts any one would easily feel girls are not trustworthy and rascal, so it's a bit of surprise you did not realise it yet.Well, personally I would not say girls are not trust worthy, but I would put it as girls are more dynamic and highly adaptable unlike guys.So If a guy would want to adjust with them, he has to shed some of his static nature and try to be little observant, if not as observant as girls.Any one does not want a mere LOVE unless it's practical and adaptable. Take it easy and have fun.Life is too short and too precious to worry/to end for girls ;)

^ @chk ... no offence taken ... i understand ur point of view ... cheers

Dear Sri,
I have a question first-you said"I also cant stand any form of separation from the one i were to marry  or the kids (to-be )".There are age and cultural differences between us and I'm not sure I understand what you mean.
What would happen if your wife walked into another room and the door accidentally locked behind her?Is it the custom where you live for husband to accompany their wives to the bathroom?I need you to tell me more.
                                                  Steve

Dear Sri,
If you want help you need to answer the question,not avoid it.
But if you don't,I wish you well.
                                                       Steve