i dont know about other girls cos i am not one of those i believed in this sacred decision of god...
i tried hard but he did not listen...
in my case it was a guy... so i dont trust any guy anymore.
i believe there is a time to say no...saying no after engagement or just b4 marriage is not fair at all.
every1 is being given many chances to know each other then only we say yes to a marriage right!
i dont know why are human beings so confused... nobody has given them the right to destroy any1s life or to push them into mental trauma.

i just hate people who keep so many faces of being so nice at one minute and being such an creepy person the other.
i can only say for you that please dont loose hope someone somewhere better than that girl might be waiting for you.

everything is his decision i guess, we can never go against him... atleast now i believe in this.

Dear Dreamz,

Let me clarify few things- I felt Prasanna was merely quoting your case as an example regarding registered marriage while at the same time she meant girls have been doing this frequently now a days. Please dont mistake me ( or Prasanna who is again new to me just as you are ) were merely quoting about the trend being set but we were not targetting you.
               Later on, learnt that many girls have done things like that.

In my case certainly I tried my best to clarify their doubts and even apologised for  their misunderstanding but let me hereby also tell you about the girl's personality based on horoscope and the person as I have known --- arrogant, self centered, materialistic, cunning, disrespectful and a compulsive lier. I thought this stupid girl ( sorry for swearing )is going to change for good but did'nd think she is going to behave the way she did. During conversations with this girl even without me asking her to change she used to say several times she doesnt listen to her parents and they have to listen to her indirectly saying I got to listen to her while she doesnt listen to me. This girl was highly pampered since childhood as she was the only girl and her family never said no to her.
If this girl is like this what is she going to teach her children in future.She was a spoilt brat.

My family asked this girl's choice before  our engagement several times and confirmed by myself,  in the absence of any of her family members. She said she was interested. This girl is a doctor as I am and do you know she lied about me to her family members in order to break this engagement, stooping down to my character being assasinated. She indulged in smear campaign. At one point of my conversation she lied to somebody and when I asked her why she was lying she said it is better to lie than tell the truth and be in trouble and she was'nt even ashamed of it, infact felt comfortable to do so.