Hi Astrologers,

I am Leo female born on 10 Aug 1985 approximately 4pm and He is an Aries bon on 21 Mar 1982.Both  born on Yangon,Myanmar. We fell in love since May 2003 in Singapore and we both are now living in Singapore.

In  Dec 2009, the issue came to light is that, he has always has been thinking of a girl he liked in his childhood all the while we were dating . He has contacted her again in early Dec 2009 when he went back to Myanmar. He is totally smitten with her beauty, but he also could not decide to part with me , claiming that he is in love with both of us. But at that time , we have already discussed about to get married in 2011. Then I gave him freedom to choose between us and we were back together again in April 2010.
In sept 2010, he asked me when would I get to get married. I just asked him to set the date in 2011 May or oct. But then he again is indecisive to set the date. I find something is amiss and further questioned him. It turn out that he is still unable to set his heart. He just chose me in April because he thought I am the right partner for him. So I asked him to set his heart and mind firmly whether to move forward with me. He again asked me to give him time.

So , my question here is, will he be able to give me full attention and his love once he has made decision to get married with me? Will our marriage will be successful & last forever? The most important thing I find in marriage is to be loved faithfully, my emotional security.

Besides, my family is a strict family. So, I am afraid my parents will think I bring shame upon the family if I break up with him after dating for him 7 years. Does he really love me and are we soul mate? Is the marriage successful and long lasting only if the soul mates get married?