hello
im 24 years old girl, in a relationship with someone of same age.
i have been in previous courtships which have left me hurt and depressed.
i have a total faith in this guy but not my fate...can anyone please help me out by reading my horoscope n telling me what is stored for me coz im on a verge of complete breakdown. my dob is 25.04.86 time 00:10 hrs new delhi
his dob is 18.11.1986 20:30 kolkata.
im from a loving but strict family...i wanna know whether my parents wud agree happily...wud i b able to cope up with this never ending painful period??? by when wud i b settling down,if at all...

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Hi Avantika ji,
Let me try to put few words here though i generally don't as my schedule doesn't allow me to.
In your case i would definitely advise you to be very cautious before getting married.but would
also advise you to have a more optimistic and SURE look at life.

I would like to ask u few things before moving ahead.Its not very clear from your Query what actually
went wrong.Kindly confirm with the dates and events

It seems from your chart that around 2007 end onwards you start getting involved in relationship
at  primary level.
But main changes are more apparent around mid of (May,2009) 2009 to 11/2009 where things would have started going wrong and later in starting of 2010 things would have reached decisive results.In this period of 05/2009 to 11/2009 there must have been something going wrong with the expectation from the partner.
But again in later part of year in 2010 again something came up in your life.


It is showing that in later half of 2009 things have got quite messy and in decisive...Do you think unsurety
was playing apart here.It seem in early 2010 some more concrete  decision came from your side.
Had any relationship has  to do something with inter-caste or Unconventional marriage.

Things may start moving after next birthday of your but even if you will get married you will take a while to get
accustomed to this idea of marriage. Even though this year(04/2010-04/2011) you would be very much lonely and
unsure of ur partnership but  from next year improvement will start But yess this will take time to get sunk into you..

Regards,
Raman Deep Singh

sir
thank u so much for valuable advice and i would like to throw some more light on the timings n all...my emotional state has been in a turmoil since  2004 ending ...there s been deceit pain lies n what not...my parents are very loving educated people who will not have any issue of cast as such other than the fact that they just want me safe n happy...my parents were against the previous guy coz he had few things in his personality which i couldnt see that time coz of my teenage but my parents were old n wise enough to notice...still i continued n finally ended that relationship in dec 08 which had become painful n excess baggage for both of us...my problem now is that i cant stand in front of may parents now n tell them abt this guy coz i fear that i wouldnt b taken seriously this time n my earlir judgement for that guy would b considered...my parents know that this guy n i are great friends but im afraid to go n tell them to stop looking for a match as im engaged to this person who i must say is not a charmer always...the guy is practical n very straight forward in approach towards his life..i have observed him dealing with life, with the world....both of us r happy...there have been fights but we have made through..now this guy is bengali n im a punjabi girl...again not a big issue..but i just want to know how much resistance im gonna face, n by when things wud start settling down in my life....what time around i may get married??? what are the chances that this relationship wud break???
i ll be thankful if u can just answer my these few questions

regards

sir i more thing i would say that i was born on the night of 24 april 00:10 hrs which becomes 25 april, in case u need actual timing details..

thanking u in advance

regards

avantika