Dear Magge,

I've just joined this forum and started reading with this thread.

I'll keep it strictly to Jyotisha.

I'm not sure if you are still looking for a remedy but here's my two cents on this.
Assuming the time as 09:30:00pm - I get Virgo Ascendant in Rasi and Pisces in Navamsa.

You married on Feb 19,2009 - during Venus/Merc/Venus. This is quite easily understandable since
Venus is the 2nd and 9th lord and Karaka for the marital relations, placed in the 4th.
Mercury is the Upapada lagna lord.

In Navamsa - Venus is also placed in the 7th and Mercury is the lord of the 7th.
So these both are quite capable of giving this event.

So why is this relation breaking during the same period?

In the Navamsa - Venus is the 3rd and 8th lord debilitated in the 7th - capable of damaging the 7th as well by his functional
nature.

In Rasi - Sat is placed in the 2nd from UL and Venus and Mercury (as the UL lord) is in the 7th from the UL.
Planets in the 7th indicate the people (in-laws) that are opposed to your marriage.
Venus indicates people like sisters or sister-in-laws, Mercury can indicate cousins, uncles - here as the UL lord
the spouse itself can be against the wedding.
Sun in the 8th is also not very auspicious for this UL.

You were strong on ending this relation - but I two cents to give it a second life.

Fast on Wednesdays and pray to lord Venkateshwara by listening to Vishnu Sahasranamam.
Do the fasting for 10 Wednesdays.
Let this Venus/Merc period pass by - ends on May 10, 2011

With Best Wishes
Shrikanth

Dear Magge

I have had a look at your chart. There are no obvious problems in your chart except for the fact that Shukra is neecha in the 7th house in navamsa. That is not the ideal and the aspect of Ra on it. Since you are from a Brahmin family, you should understand a basic thing.  NO ONE SUFFERS because of someone. We all suffer the outcome of our own karma. You should read Srimad bhagvat and the Gita. You have a tough time in relationships for the next couple of years and if your wife is pregnant, you cant walk out just like that. You are running away. If there is a problem between your Parents and your wife, it can easily be the mood swings that come along with pregnancy. Also you should try to recite the Durga Kalpavriksha mantra, that will help immensly. You have a gaja Kesari yoga in the 7th house. End result will be good. Just tide over the karma and leave the rest to the lord. Remember that after you are a father you have to upgrade yourself to Surya. He gives us light without emotion. If you can keep theemotion out of teh situations you will find that the things are too petty for you to bother.

Remember what Gandhi Ji taught us. An Oppressor will not continue to do injustice if we dont react and do out duty. With reaction the escalation happens and the gap between action and reaction is called emotional intelligence.

May God Bless you

Hari Om tat Sat

Tarun