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Posts: 4 · Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 3:53 pm

Respected Astrologers,

Am desperately in need of help, this is regarding my brother, he is a well educated person, Since last 1 ½ to 2 years he has become very very aggressive against us (mother, sister, brother). He started hating us, he just is not able to stand us.

We both had a good relation, now whenever I try to call him or mail him, only thing he does is curse me. Even then I kept mailing him and telling him I am ready to do whatever he needs, he still is very stubborn and is angry for baseless reasons.

He is not married, he is still not settled in a good job. He talks to other relatives, when they try to get him talk to us, he keeps telling them that we all are very bad.

I really don’t know how to end all this. Our relatives say, If he gets into good job and if he gets married, he will be ok, he might be doing out of frustration that he is not settled still

Will he ever talk to us,
When will he get married,
When will he get a good job,

Can someone please please answer, I am really desperate.

DOB: 21-01-73; TOB: 23 Hrs.-55 Min. POB: Lat--16° 31' N Long--80° 39' E

Thanks in Advance

Posts: 141 · Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:08 pm

If I could suggest a remedy..... how would you get him to take it / do it?
Say..... something in the form of Homeopathic pills: would he take them?

I can help only if that is possible.

Posts: 558 · Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 4:27 pm

NeedHelp wrote:

Respected Astrologers,

Am desperately in need of help, this is regarding my brother, he is a well educated person, Since last 1 ½ to 2 years he has become very very aggressive against us (mother, sister, brother). He started hating us, he just is not able to stand us.

We both had a good relation, now whenever I try to call him or mail him, only thing he does is curse me. Even then I kept mailing him and telling him I am ready to do whatever he needs, he still is very stubborn and is angry for baseless reasons.

He is not married, he is still not settled in a good job. He talks to other relatives, when they try to get him talk to us, he keeps telling them that we all are very bad.

I really don’t know how to end all this. Our relatives say, If he gets into good job and if he gets married, he will be ok, he might be doing out of frustration that he is not settled still

Will he ever talk to us,
When will he get married,
When will he get a good job,

Can someone please please answer, I am really desperate.

DOB: 21-01-73; TOB: 23 Hrs.-55 Min. POB: Lat--16° 31' N Long--80° 39' E

Thanks in Advance

Libra Asc, Leo Moon.
Mars in scorio (2nd from Asc, 4th from moon)
Ju,Ve,Ra in Saggi . Kodanda Rahu yoga.
Me and sun in capri forming budhaditya yoga
Retro sat in Taurus
Ketu in Gemini

Jup is AK and Mars is AmK. Merc is DK. Rahu is GK. Moon is PiK,Venus is MK
Sat(R) is BK in 8th from Asc.

since Jup is AK , enemies are MK and BK. so there more chance of hatred with Mother and siblings. Which u need to live with.

about Marriage: Merc as DK is highly weak (88%). Kalatrakaraka Venus ( also MK) is hemmed b/w Rahu and Jupiter. Merc with PK sun causing strong urge to reproduce.

He started hating mother probably his love is rejected or he thinks mother and sibling causing blockage in his free will. Rahu is GK casuing person to beahve low socio economically ( quarrelsome, bad attitude , rebellion).

currently running Mars/Merc period till Nov 2009. Jup is also weak causing mental trumoil. He not able to understand why destiny ( luck) is so bad to him. His friends and same age people settled down causing him inferiority /mental blockage. But he is determined person. Aslo sadestahi running . Once saturn moves out of leo ( in sep 2009) . he will move towards normalcy.

Praying Lord Rama daily will help. Praying Ma durga daily ( Stree shapa from past life , curse of spouse delaying his marriage). He will have very good period of Rahu starting from 2012.

for time being its good for u and ur mother to leave him is own. Pray to lord rama and Ma durga to give him good life.

Posts: 4 · Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 5:09 pm

Respected medical_astrology ji,
Thanks a lot for the reply
I really feel ashamed to tell you that it is very hard to give the pills to my own brother, but I don’t want to rule out any opportunity that I have to improve the situation, so can you kindly give me the name of the pills.

Respected astro_scholr ji,
Thanks a lot for the reply. You are right, he suddenly started having this strange feeling that we all are going against him and when I ask him what exactly he wants us to do, he doesn’t give any clear answer.

Can you please kindly answer some of the questions I have,

When you said “there are more chances of hatred towards mother and siblings” does that mean, will he continue to be so even after sep 2009, when saturn moves out of leo. Do we have to live with it the rest of our lives

Will we be successful in getting him married this year
Thank you

Posts: 4817 · Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:15 pm

NeedHelp wrote:

Respected Astrologers,

Am desperately in need of help, this is regarding my brother, he is a well educated person, Since last 1 ½ to 2 years he has become very very aggressive against us (mother, sister, brother). He started hating us, he just is not able to stand us.

We both had a good relation, now whenever I try to call him or mail him, only thing he does is curse me. Even then I kept mailing him and telling him I am ready to do whatever he needs, he still is very stubborn and is angry for baseless reasons.

He is not married, he is still not settled in a good job. He talks to other relatives, when they try to get him talk to us, he keeps telling them that we all are very bad.

I really don’t know how to end all this. Our relatives say, If he gets into good job and if he gets married, he will be ok, he might be doing out of frustration that he is not settled still

Will he ever talk to us,
When will he get married,
When will he get a good job,

Can someone please please answer, I am really desperate.

DOB: 21-01-73; TOB: 23 Hrs.-55 Min. POB: Lat--16° 31' N Long--80° 39' E

Thanks in Advance

Hi,

Mars ?Vimshottari dasa started in mid 2005, and sade sade sati ensued then.

Mars opposed sani causing an aggressed self, afflicting the Arudha Lagna+ the 3/9 axis from Lagna.

Something very hurting transpired for him around between May & July 2005, causing great frustrations, and a self defeatist attitude.

The above is arrived trhu various dasa sytems.

Presently the native is coming out of a very confused state since mid 2008 to better home environment, but it will be 2012 till he is entirely fine about it.

How was your relation with him in 2004 like?

RishiRahul