You are currenlty going throu Ve/Ve period till Nov 2009
I wud not recommend love marriage although there is possibility. there is more chance of break.
I wud recommend arranged marriage. Also matching shud be done carefully.
Possibly u have currently love failure/ heart break. but dont worry .forget the ugly turns.
You dont need to go spiritual. You can live positive marriage life ( although it will have issues, its not bed of roses). But you need to have patience with your partner.
ITs good thought that you want to service in future. There are possibliilty of doing it after age of 50.
dont get frustrate with your current job situation. Need patience till april 2009.
Also reduce partner hopping in work place
