Dear Certain ji,
First of all definetely i did not at all Angry on you coz there is no reason to be angry.People can have different perception towards same thing or may be different appraoch towards fopr same purpose..In this case both are right...

I understand that you did not like me saying things the way i have said it....but again i will say that my language was not rude may be direct but its for the same purpose as urs difference was that your take is different from mine..I am not defending mysekf and you definetely has full right as an elder to me, to advice mebut this is about telling the native where things r geting wrong..It is a general tendency of a person in trouble to put things as if they r first one to handle it ..We can make them realise otherwise by both the ways..urs and mine.... I prefer the way i did coz its a general approach..I did not find his condition as putted by you as  life is
coz from what he mention about his career and life till now....



Definetely i did not wanna to insult him but yes again wanna to let him know being of almost same age group as mine that there is no need to look for further reason to get negative....and frankly(PERSONALLY) i dont like when people use different add ons especially astrology,which i respect alot, as a source to feel MORE  negative.......

I do understand that what it means when your family does not support you and i have seen worse cases when parents ask kids to pay for living with them and infact worse..
But when person cannot love or respect him/her self then how can he/she can expect anyone be it his own parents to respect or love him......

As said by astro_schlr:-


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I believe that its impotant for native to realise that we need to fight back rather then crib bout whats happeneing or even make things go worse....We all have moments of weaknesses but worse you can do is to worsen the situation by looking for further reasons to justify your negativity....Negativity CANNOT be justified in any condition or situation..I PERSONALLY will never agree on this....Being younger to you i may be making mistake but yes this is my sure belive(by god's grace which i have understood) that negativity cannot be justified be it any situation....

My own life had quite an expreincing phase which by god's grace i was able to pass through.....Which is quite well known by old members of this forum....
To add on i will say one thing to Amar1:-

Have faith ..AND most of all..FAITH HAS TO BE UNCONDITIONAL......means without any condition....first test your faith and once done with it .. be with it in any condition......This is the time of your life when you can spend time with yourself and understand life much better and make your faith stronger.....



For you Certain ji ,




Thanks for thinking about me ..

Regards,
Raman