I liked a person a while ago but it didnt work out: there was a third person involved. Was it misunderstanding or this person is no good (seemed manipulative). I ignored her when she tried to initiate contact. I would really appreciate your reply.

My birth details
26 feb 1982,
davangere, karnataka, India
5:10 evening

Her details
26 oct 1983
new bedford, Massachusetts, US
8:15 morning


Thanks a lot

No person is good or bad based upon the chart. It's  how effectively one utilizes the planets energy and houses that matters. I read the second chart I see JU/MO in 6:8 position, MA exact Conjnct  VE in radix and D9. KE in 2nd , SA aspecting 7th , all signals to delayed marriage. Isolated Moon is in kemundram with no benefic aspect. I sugget you run some free matching software in WEB and they will tell you the score out of 36. You start from there. The situation does not improve from Moon also.
But remember after all the above,  the native is running good dasa sequence which is more important.