My details:

DOB: Feb, 20, 1977
Time: 11.40PM
Place: Coimbatore

His:

DOB: Nov, 21, 1977
time: Not sure
Place: Chennai.

We are married and going through some very tough times. I want to save the marriage. Do we have a future together?

Please help.

Hope some great soul check this thread and help me out :-(

Since I have been asked not to give any advices in Vedic, I will let this request stay.

I will be very excited to read our "Learned" astrologers view on this question, since I have got the understanding that Vedic Astrology is a firm since with firm answers, and that personal intiative has nothing to do with the outcome, what so ever.

What puzzle me a bit is "If not all of you predict, or read the same thing from the same chart, what is then truth, and what is bogus?
Who of you can tell the truth? Who of you can be the judge of other?

Another thing that is IMPORTANT...each statement you bring forward need to be the truth, with no room for error....if not...then it again show that Vedic is a prediction tool....that it has ability to change....that the person must do something for the prediction to be fulfilled.

Another IMPORTANT thing is; if the Star tell the truth, then you cant chose what request to answer, and what not...because it is all written there, and you have the tool....If this is not the case....what makes the difference? If it is the action of the seeker...well that again the free will has importance....if it is due to the star...well if it not contain all information...maybe the information change according to action?

Is it so simple that paying US$ 299, and buy the best software, then I will become God, and know when you marry, when you become divorce, what education and so on?

I have deep respect for Astrology, It has survived for 1000's of year, but it is a prediction tool....not a mirror tool.

I think the learned Gurus of this site, and elsewhere, shall have a bit bigger view, then just live by Vedic, because that will give the seeker much better answers, even if you downgrade yourself from God.



This is a copy and paste from Astrologer50, from what I have read, It seems she can her trade!

Me thinks you do expect TOO much from astrology...
THE "T R U T H" ABOUT ASTROLOGY

Astrology is humanity's oldest and most precise mindmap. It cannot, however, accurately predict events. THE STARS' & THE PLANETS HOLD HALF THE ANSWERS: YOU HOLD THE REST! Choices you make within the astrological environment determines what actually happens to you.

We are ALL FREE PEOPLE WITH FREE WILL. No rigid, fatalistic prediction can bind us. There is no astrological event so baleful that creativity, ?intelligence, and honest self appraisal cannot turn it to ?constructive uses and there is no configuration so glorious that selfishness and laziness cannot sour it!

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The purpose of modern predictive astrology is to help people make better choices, to clarify the nature of the psychological terrain through which they are passing, and to serve as their ally in the endless, unpredictable task of creating the future!

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Astrology CAN be mind boggling in its accuracy, but it can never consistently predict who is going to walk through the doors of your home, work or family environment. It doesn't naturally speak the language of outward, concrete events. The future that astrology foresees with such startling exactitude, doesn't always unfold in the world "out there." It unfolds between your ears and in your heart!

Astrology cannot predict that you're going to wreck your car, win the Lottery or Grand National. It cannot point out in advance the date of your marriage (although certain advantageous conditions CAN make romantic suggestions and overtones that would be fortuitous), your death, or the arrival of your new TV set.
That kind of astrological prophecy is ?misleading, bogus and unreliable.

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What modern predictive astrology can do is inform you in advance of the natural rhythms of your life and moods thereby helping you arrange your life (outward experiences) in the happiest, most harmonious and efficient manner!

though the birth data of both is required(his birth time is missing), i will comment based on ur side alone.the current dasa lord kethu is in 7th with 6th lord jupiter giving rise to quarrels between you.in the navamsa the the dasa lord kethu is in lagna disposing venus in 9th.but since the bhukti lord(jupiter) is in 8th in navamsa the present scenario has arisen.the next bhukti is of saturn being retrograde in 10th and again in 8th in navamsa.but as per transits jupiter is entering 11th house of ur rasi from dec 9th.this holds a ray of hope.it is aspecting your 7th house from moonsign.hence try talking to him making him understand ur affection at the same time clear the misconceptions about you.dasabhukti wise the period uptil 2010 may, will be problematic from matrimony angle. if you handle this critical period well then you can come out of this.kindly listen to the advice of elders which you  seem to fail in.thank you.keepupdating. good luck.

Work hard till 22 April 2009 , Stars are going to favour you going forward. Stay away from gossips and evil company- it's very important. There is a lot of scope for improvement at inter personal level.