I have been in a relationship with this guy for the last 4 yrs, but he has this huge commitment phobia. Our relationship has been very rocky with many up's and downs, and periods when we have'nt spoken for months, also resistance from his parents side due to our different castes. But as of now he seems to be thinking seriously about our marriage, but is again hesitating to take the final plunge. I want to know if this relationship is going to materialize into mrriage, and when will it be??

My details are 9th august 1982, 08:48 am, Dehradun, India.
My partners are 24 th June 1979, 08:50 am , Delhi, India.

Please help me with ur answer and advice...i would be really grateful.

Your Ketu/moon period starts from 27/03/2009 to 30/10/2009. The configuration is good in D9 wrt Venus/sun/asc and radix has moon conjunct Ghati-lagna. You will start getting (+) response after mid-December 2008 when Juitor moves to 5th house.  Your Saturn in ASC aspects your 7th house Moon and 10th house Venus which is causing  delays due to your casual and  sometimes depressed views about marriage. On the other hand conjunction of Jupitor and Mars in 2nd makes you very outspoken person and could help you settle problems suddenly in right antar/transit.
Regards
Bhuwan

Thankyou so much sir for easing my tensions with ur reply...there is just one more thing i want to ask..is there any upay/ remedy that i can do to improve my chances of marriage with this person, and to change my attitude which u say is causing delays. Please suggest.

So called feminine planets Moon and Venus suffer due to poor Drig-bala( overall planetary conditions due to apect), poor direcional strength, poor Ishta phal but Venus improves in Vimshopak. Moon stays poor due to Kemundrum Yoga( Wavering and unsettling mind off and on ). Jupitor fully Conjunct Mars (approx. 0-degree) with MAR having Kasta Phal of 31 and Jupitor having 28 Ishta Phal, it means that MARS takes away all goodness of Jupitor of 28 units, making Jupitor week.
The solution is fast on Thurdays and Mondays and do the pooja. Wear a diamond for Venus on Friday.
Regards
Bhuwan