I just now joined this community. After reading few messages here I think this is the right place to pour my problem. Please please let me know what is ahead for me. I am a Hindu, non brahmin Saliyar community girl and my boy friend is a Hindu, non brahmin, Kallar community guy. We both are in love with each other. We told our parents 2 years back and we are still waiting for their acceptance. This is getting delayed for a long time and I am becoming tired of fighting. Everyone in my family are uspset with me that people have even stopped to talk to me. My dad is totally unhappy and he doesnt want to get involved in this marriage. I have been waiting for a long time, but without any success. All my friends have got marriage and now I am left all alone. Pleas help me looking at my birth chart. Will I be able to marry the person whom I love with my parents beside me ? I dont want to make them unhappy and loose them because of this. At the same time, I dont want to marry a new guy. Will I ever get married ?

My DOB : 14th FEB, 1983.
TIME : 2.22 IST

Please help.

You need to post your place of birth as well. Were you born on 2:22 in the morning or in the afternoon?

I am a learner and may not be able to answer your query, but there are experts here who can. So please post your complete details.

Don't lose faith on yourself, you seem to be on the right path. But that is just my opinion. Hoping you find your answer.

Thanks for the reply.

My place of birth is : Sundarapandiam Village (near Srivilliputtur town)
The closest city to my place of birth is Madurai, Tamil Nadu.
I was born at 2.22 IST which is 2.22 A.M on 14th Feb 1983.

Expecting some reply to help me out of this confusion. Thanks to everyone who is viewing and replying to my post here.

Thanks

Right now the delay is caused by transiting Saturn which is aspecting your Su/Moon/Venus/Mars in 4th and your 7th house. It delays things but does not deny You are in Jupitor/Mars  period  after Sept 26 2008. Jupitor is well placed in ASC scorpio aspecting your trine  houses.  Mars is your ASC lord and aspects your 7th  house of marriage. Jupitor/Mars period will certainly give you marriage.   After mid-december 2008  transiting Jupitor will aspect your 9th and 7th which will open up the opportunity to have better favours from your parents. Saturn will move  retrogate from January 2009 which makes it more powerful and aspecting all your karakas in it's own 4th house. Transiting Jupitor and Sun(karaka for father and 9th house) combine aspecting your 9th should solve the problem. This finding is also confirmed from Naryana dasa of Libra( you have exalted Saturn here)  where Moon/Mars/Sun can give you resolution to marriage related questions.
Regards
Bhuwan

I understand the *pressure* this nativity is experiencing but if I were in his/her shoes, I would wait till mid-2010 before making any serious committment.