Hi all,

I am in love with this girl for last 3 years. Then out of insecurity and some childish behavior from my side i did something and drove her away. However when i realised my mistake i asked for her forgiveness. She was not able to do so.

Coming straight to point:

I came to know the reason, why she broke up, she had a small crush on some one else ( a friend who gave a shoulder to cry upon ). She felt guilty about it and therefore was not able to come back in the relation ship.

Now she has asked me for forgiveness. And said that she loves me still. I still love her and wanted to marry her, but now i am confused, whether she will break my trust again?

My birth details are as follows:

date: 17th aug 1984.
Time : 4:45 am
city: Azamgarh
state: Uttar Pradesh.
Country: India.
Her birth details:

date: 01st May 1984
Time: 6:00 AM
city: Kota
place:Rajasthan
Country: India.

please help me . I am very very disturb and depressed to the core. I have suicidal tendencies also.

Please please help me by guiding me what to do?

I am going to decline to do a reading at this time.  Yet, I do want to tell you that suicide is rather a definite way to solve problems, and it can always wait until another day, but living can't.  I am 55, very old from your perspective.  I have been depressed at times, and suffered terrible things in my life.  I think everyone has those times when things seem very gloomy and hope has left.  Yet, I can tell you...not, I PROMISE you that things do get better.  They always get better.  So stick around for the good times, will you?

hi Vipin,

In answer to your question if you are asking for a reading then let me know I am transferring your post to the vedic reading forum.
Also an advice from me is to think well because I assume you also broke her trust by your childish behavior.It is both sides.
I wish you receive the right advice from your reading.

regards,
dhav

Hi...

my problem is still unsolved...could any one PLEASE HELP ME!!

I am running out of hope / strenghts to fight...

Please....

I am begging to anyone...who can just guide me on what to do ...i have been googleing for ways to commit ..suicide..please ...i dont want to do it ...but when pain exceeds everything ..i couldn't see any other way?

Please...someone tell me whats wrong with me / her / both of us? Will we be together in this life or not? please ...someone help me...

pleaseeeee....

My email id is :

vipin.kumar05 [at ]gmail.com

The only persons who can solve your case, is those who in it.....you can get suggestions.....but you and your girlfriend is the key.

To claim that you want to do suicide are not a promising thing, when one want to do a commitment....if such thought are in your head, then I would ask you to make a visit to your doctor, and get help.

If your talk about suicide, only is given as a token on how much you want this to work, then the case is really easy to solve.

You both say you love each other.

Love is to care and respect for each other...to believe in each other.....the greatest with love is the ability to forgive....but you have to forgive in your heart....if you not do that...then you must not go on....because then you don't have love....then you have the need to own....and to own another person will never do anything good.

So my best advice to you is;

Take a "timeout" and ask yourself :are you able to forgive?....are you able to love and respect her?....are you able to never blame her for thing that happen before the marriage?

If the answer is Yes....then go on....don't bother with Astrology....you both love each other...that override any chart...it is Karma and fate that speaks.....but be pure in thoughts before you take the step, and never look back on what she did before....only what she (and you) give from now on!

Good luck.