Dear Jyothishi's,
I am here to know from you if you see any astrological indications in my horoscope for the problems I face, when will I get better and if there are any remedies that you would suggest. Apologies for not being brief. I wanted to put in my concerns thoroughly, so that you understand what I mean.

I realized I have two problems in me due to which I have been losing my inner happiness more often - First, I have problem with Verbal Expression and Second, I think too much about other's sufferings and thereby lose my inner happiness.

These problems have manifested in lot of ways in my life, hurting my peace of mind. Each time, I feel god has been kind to me for all I have now. The next moment I also realize I have enough of free will to not get into troubles.

Here are few instances of my problems:
1. Being accused by people for no fault of mine. I cannot retaliate verbally. Words doesn't come fast. By the time I gather myself, things would have moved on, with a negative impact on me.
2. Not being able to progress in career proprtionate to the amount of hardwork I do. When it is annual review, my bosses have enough reasons to underrate me whereas I cannot defend myself well though I know he's talking rubbish. When it is a new job I loose in negotiating salary which I am worth of and worry about it later.
3. Few instances I am in financial trouble myself, but have lent money to my friend whereas I was paying interest for the money I lent the person for 0% interest. I found it so silly of me but couldn't do any better in similar circumstances.
4. I always expect others to be as fair as I am, do good, be good, and do not realize even if the person is cheating. I realize it very late that the person was intentionally cheating. By the time I realize things would have already moved on.

I only want to be able to keep unreasonable people at bay, improve my verbal skills to retaliate spontaneously, and further I want to be able to get enough fruits for my hardwork in my career.

My details are
6th June 78, Male, 3:15pm ,  venkatagiri, nellore, andhra pradesh

I hope I was able to convey my problems well.

Warm Wishes,
Kiran.

hello kiran
i studied your problem in your horoscope both mars and saturn conjucts and jupiter and venus also conjucts in gemini
this conjuction is the problem for your oral expression and other mind related problems so on e remedy is
if you are residing in venkatagiri visit karthaveeraarjuna temple every saturday and lit a lamp in the evening
your life starts at the age of 32 till that time try to avoid misunderstandings with others and do your duty
bye
with all good wishes
surya

Dear Surya Narayana ji,
Thank You for the reply. Can you please elaborate more on your readings? How will my life change after 32?

One more problem I face is, if I get into a situation where I have two decisions to take and both are equally good/bad, I find myself in a loop forever until the situation changes.

Do I have any specific purpose in life, that is indicated in the horoscope.

Also, I have too many varied interests which occupy my time apart from the regular job. The problem is I don't concentrate on the priority task irrespective of what the consequence will be. If I feel like playing, passing time, I do it irrespective of what my mind says. I have no control over it. I regret later though, when I face the consequences. When will this change?

Warm Regards,
Kiran.

hello kiran ji

as narayan ji already explained you the reason of your problem in your horoscop
mar sat conjuct and ven jup conjuction in gemini and in second house in chandar lagan .


1 mar is the 2nd lord and sat as a malefic although yogkarak garah conjuct send a rude signal to audience
2 Ket 's drishti on second house send the same signal

so in my opinion your own words or language is the main reason behind this

try to control your language if i am right


regards
singlak