I'm a new member of this forum. I heard about this a lot. I got married in May 2007. I'm v.traditional and religious person. I'm struggling a lot in my married life with lot of disappointments. Being a strong believer of astrology, I'm craving to get some solution to this problem. My husband is an arrogant, short-tempered and suffering with lot of health problems by having bad habits. He is not at all lovable to me. For the 4 months, we are living seperately. He is not at all responding to my calls,mails and sms etc., but i have a profound love on him. Due to this, I'm not able to concentrate on my job. Most of the time, I'm thinking only about him. At present, I'm with my parents. Hope it is the best place to guide me with strong astrological factors. my DOB: 02-11-1980 TOB: 06:55 A.M. POB: Trivandrum. my Husbands's DOB:13-08-1974 TOB: 2:26 A.M (early morning) POB: Tenkasi (Tirunelveli district). Currently I'm undergoing moon dasa, mars bukti and he is undergoing guru dasa, mercury bukti. I need clarification for the following: 1. Pls tell me how my future will be? 2. Whether there is a possibility for reunion? 3. Will I have conjugal married life if I live with my husband? 4. How the entire moon dasa will be? 5. Does my husband have  health problems throughout his life? Will he have a long life? 6. How about my career? 7. Will I have child if we live together? 8. Will he give up his bad attitude and habits? 9. His Career prospects? Your responses would be v.much helpful in taking a clear decision in my life.

Hello
I find that you are born in Magha Nakshatr while he  is in Rohini Nakshatr. Please reconfirm.
Based on your Rasi and Navams Chart, upapada-lagna positions, interplanetary positions, there are a number of areas of adjustment required for success of your married life and under normal circumstances an astrologer would tend not to recommend the match, though some in south tend to conclude that for the Nakshatr Magha, no compatability check is required to be done. This is just a matter of opinion.
In your Horoscope there is Kala Amrita Yoga with all planets tending towards Amrita
or Moksha, with Ketu being the pivotal factor in the 4th House.
The moon-Rahu Dasa commences by this month end goes on upto December 2009.
Besides you are running your sade-sath. You are therefore in a rather uncomfortable position
right now. But don’t despair. What is Im-possible is HIM-possible.
It is good to note that you want to reunite with your Hubby.
If this marriage has to be a success, both of you need to realize your strengths,
Weakness, iron out differences, and develop the bonding factor of Love. This is a step by step process for which you definitely need the blessings of the Lord besides strong determination which I find from your horoscope you are capable of handling.
Do let me know the date of your marriage as Muhurth if properly chosen takes care of a number of problems. Also do let me know the attitude of your father-in-law as far as ironing out your differences are concerned as his position is not well placed in your horoscope.
Please also let us know if you already undertaken any remedial action.
There are excellent astrologers in this forum who I am sure will also join in helping you regain your happiness.
Have faith in the Lord. More after hearing from you,
Om Sri Sairam
AVAM

Dear AVAM ji,

Pranams.

I'm v.much happy to see yr reply and interest in my case....

Pls find the following details as you requested:

Date of Marriage: 09th May 2007

Muhurtha Time   : 9 to 10.30 am

Day: Wednesday

So far, I didn't do any remedial measures after this problem. But before marriage, me and my parents went to Kaalahasti and Thirunageshwaram and did some pooja for kaala sarpa dosham...

My Father In Law completely supports all the bad habits/activities of my husband...Moreover he gave false allegations on me...my husband still justifies his stand just because of his parents' support...Though my Mother In Law is very short tempered and emotional, at times she will support me.

Unfortunately, both my in-laws are teachers. Just because of that only, my father (he is also a teacher) chose that family in the thought that teachers' family is giving more importance to discipline than anything else....My father is a v.disciplined, honest and straightforward man giving utmost importance to dharma and niyama...My entire family is v.much upset by their behaviour and breach of trust...

But totally, I lost my hope, moreover I don't know whether we'll live together or not...He is v.reluctant to change his behaviour...He is not at all communicating with me...He is totally ignoring me...Even then, this poor girl is loving him and having a thought that he will come one day after realizing all his mistakes...My mind is always agitating and thinking about him...

Being the strong believer of astrology, I want to take a clear decision based on all your valuable inputs and suggestions....

Thanks & Regards,
Gayathri

Hello Gayathri,
I have checked your Muhurtha Date of marriage.It would have been wonderful if the Jupiter was placed in the secondHouse  from Upapada or or aspecting it or associated in anyway with it on the day of your wedding, but it is not so.Also the Sun happens to be
in the 7th House in yours and in the 12th from Moon in his case on the Muhurtha Day . Though the Muhurtha chosen is not bad,
it does not lend much support .
So you are left with Remedial measures to be taken.Never mind.
First we have to tackle the Kala Amrita Yoga issue,followed by taking care of
Sade Sath[Elaranatu Sani] then strengthen your second house from Upapada, ie Jupiter
to avoid furthur problems in your married life.
Do you think you can fast on one day on Thurstday from Sun Rise to Sunset
and restrict yourself on Milk and fruits?
I shall send you to your e-mail ID the detailed procedure and Mantras
recommended,method of observing Vrat on Thurstday all to be done with faith,sincerity.
Do let me have your views before I send.But have faith in the Lord.He does everything for good.
Om Sri Sai Ram
AVAM

Dear AVAMji,
       Pranams. Tons of thanks to you for showing an interest and concern on me. I don't have words to express my gratitude...

       Many people are saying that my horoscope is having kaala sarpa dosha. I'm ready to take any kind of remedial measures and vratha or fasting for the betterment. Already, I'm used to more fasting (paavai nonbu) for 4 years before marriage to get a good husband....(but the result is different). This shock really shaked my belief in those vrathas and rituals...Again, I self-commanded my mind and slowly coming to the rituous path and started chanting MAHA MRUTUNJAYA MANTRA and HANUMAN CHALISA daily.

       I would be v.much obliged if you answer me the following questions:
i) Whether we'll have a reunion or not? If there, when?
ii) Will he give-up his bad habits?
iii) Does he have any sort of affection on me? or mentally prepared for divorce?
iv) How to reduce my short-temper and mental agitation?

       I'm v.much dejected and frustrated in life since many of astrologers gave negative opinion...But your reply really boosted my confidence level.

       Thanks a lot again. Expecting your positive reply...
regards,
Gayathri