My hubby's DOB -12-10-63 5.30PM Petlad and mine 8-8-65 7.05AM ahmedabad.
we love each other but fight a lot !  Any suggestions for us ?
Thanks

birth places given by you petlad & ahmadabad, both are in gujrat - if YES, and timings given are correct.

then by reading your horoscopes, it is very clear that this cpouple will have a lot of problems.

The main reason is DIFFERENCE OF OPINION between the couple.

is the time and manner in physical relations is also the problem ? if YES,

i recomend to wear white pearl (moti) of at least 5.25 Ratti, in silver, in the little finger - to the person Born on 12 oct 1963, 05.30 PM (as i know the birth time only)

please do mention the gender alongwth the birth details in your next query (if any) it helps a lot in reading a horoscope.

Thanks inderk.
Bithplaces are in Gujarat-yes and times are correct.

physical relations is also the problem ?  YES, he is in jail for assaulting wife, as I called the police. Can't take any longer-suffered enough, he must get the message.

Do you see any hope that he will change  his attitude ? any any future of this marriage ? I have 2 kids-sons aged 11 and 4.

I am going through hard time in life. First father passed away and now I am on the verge of divorce because of the violent husband who is not ready to accept his mistakes and ways. I do not have any job. what is in future for me ?

Allow me to give you an advice that not build on Astrology, but more from life experience.

I am sad when I read your story, but I am very glad that you took the step to inform the police about the abuse.

Sorry to say, but there is many male and females that are capable to do great gruesome thing to their spouses.

When they are put into a corner, they almost always promise a better behavior, and change.......it seldom happen...if they don't ask and is given help.

Since you have small children, such an behavior from your husband might lead to future abuse from them too, this has been confirmed true several investigations.


I suggest that you take a "timeout".

Try to sit down and think the whole case true.
What are your options, what kind of help can you get.

Is it really love you feel? or is it the strong male that "dominate you"?
Do you want to grow old with this guy?
Are you sure he will support you when you become older?

Has the violence increased each year?
Many times it does.....what happen with you when you become older and more fragile?

I ask a lot of questions, and there are many more,  but I hope you will find them yourself when or if you take this time for yourself and evaluate your situation.

I can assure you that the only one who can change your situation....is yourself.....NO Astrology....No Reading....they might be to a help ...but no solution.

You know how many years you have lived together....no position of any star will change his mind or cruelty....it is all up to you!

Good luck...and a BIG HUG...I feel a lot with you!