Namaste ,
I am an engineer by profession
Place  of residence from bangalore but last 3 years in mumbai
I would like your sincere and thoughtful advice on a matter which is of grave importance for

me and going to change and effect many lives.
I got married on 9 feb 2004 .It was a marriage which happened when both were having many problems in our families and found support in each other though I never was attracted to her physically but she had all the other qualities.My wife however says sheloves me.But till date I havent consummated the marriage cos i am not sexually aroused or attracted to her.
My dob is 04/03/72
p o b shillong(meghalaya)india
t  o b  0745 am
time zone + 5.30 gmt
Wife
dob 09/04/1977
p o b coimbatore india
t o b 06 45 am
time zone + 5.30 gmt
Few months after marriage my mother in law had paralysis and I decided to stay back in my inlaws place so that my wife can look after her mom.Due to the nature of my job i keep away from the country for 6 months and come back for 4 months or so on complete vacation.
I also was simultaneously looking for purchasing a house in bangalore/mumbai but unfortunately both the houses which i finalised each year did not go through due to documentation problem at the last minute when  i was about to leave.Thus my wife continued remaining in her mothers place both to help her mom recover and also because i did not have a house of my own in mumbai.I cud not keep her at my parents place in bangalore cos both my sisters themselves are going thro a bad phase and also my mom is seriously depressed since last 8 years with no hope of cure.During the 3 years that i stayed on and off at my inlaws place i changed their life a lot fincancially ,cleared off their loans,have spent almost 3 lakhs apart from all the monthly expenses and also helped her younger brother buy a flat for himself at the young age of 24.
But at the end of all this what i feel is though i am doing a whole lot of good to my wife's family ,I dont seem to be happpy in this life as this is not the kind of wife and life or family i wanted to live with all my life.I realised that if i dont find my wife sexually attractive to my eyes  i can never be sexually aroused or think of consumating the marriage.
I have realised that we have not had the blissful married life and all that we do is quarrel over all issues and my wife blames me for not being able to keep her in my  own house.Our natures also totally incompatible even in sun astrology of Pisces & Aries.We dont have any happy moments when togetther but just putting a show cos I am scared and not sure about our future together.Under these circumstances is it right for me to divorce her as i realised that if i go on like this i will surely have an affair later and maybe things will go only worse.But the things which are stopping me are mainly:
1.My age-- i am presently 35.5 yrs
2.My mom's uncured depression due to which no other girl may accept to get married
3.My 2 sissters aged 33 and 38 who are still not married.In case i take a divorce ,  their chances of marriage may become very bleak due to a divorced brother and mom with serious depression.
4.My inlaws  & family are very dependent on me financially and attached to me emotionally.I feel extremely guilty that I will betray their and my wife's faith and trust.
5.The social humiliation to me, my wife and both our families
Please advice me on following points as per my horoscope:
1.Is it ok to get divorced?
2.Will i get second wife of my choice?
3.If i get married second time will my future be good or will i face more severe probs
4.Will my present wife get a good second husband and live happily?
5.Will my both sisters get married even if i divorce??
please help me to take a wise decision as u can see a lot of lives are involved.
I would appreciate any kind of advice from you to save the
future of  so many lives.
Thanks in advance.

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