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Posts: 32 · Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:46 pm

Dear ash1234,

please DO NOT give her divorce.

there are still chances of reunion.

but please tell your intentions clearly. what do you want.

if you go for a second marriage, the history may repeat itself.

it is due to rahu placed in the first house in your chart.

please do reply.

Inder Kumar

Posts: 711 · Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 3:55 pm

Ashirwad,

Yours seem to be a pretty interesting case. I agree with Inderji on not doing anything rash, DO NOT GIVE HER DIVORCE, rahu in lagna is not a good placement but just one indication cannot make or break a person. I don't see any strong indicators of divorce in your horoscope either, it looks to me this is a transient phase. I see more issues in your wife's horoscope than yours, she is a pretty emotional character and there is some sort of suddenness about her. A few pointers for you, I would not go away for business leaving family for long periods, especially someone like your wife and it looks to me this is the primary cause of her discontent. You seem to be a pretty career oriented person, more in the traditional mould and you need to spend more quality time with you wife rather than taking her to an expensive dinner or lavishing her with gifts once in a while, it is very difficult to figure out everything without giving each side a patient hearing and I seriously recommend that you do a private consultation with a couple HONEST experienced astrologers. In case you need recommendations, pm me.

think, strategize, don't loose heart, just be patient, time will heal.

hope that helps

Posts: 617 · Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:22 am

Dear ashirwad,

My sugesstion is that if you are senstive to the extra marital flings of your spouse, Think of life without her because , these Flings are likely to continue . In case divorce proceedins do take place it will be after march 09 . Try the remedy of throwing coal made of wood , Quantity to be thrown should be equal to your body weight in runnig water. Remedy to be done on Wednesday or saturday, Between sunrise and sunset.

Regards

J.s.sandhu

ash1234 wrote:

My name is Ashirwad

My date of birth is 27th August 1974, Time 1:47 pm, Location Mangalore, India.

I was married on 20th November 2003 in Mangalore India to Sandhya

My wifes date of birth is 10th January 1981, Time 1:45 pm, Location Shimoga, India

Long story short, on 20th January 2008 My wife suddenly ended what appeared to be the perfect marriage

She left me for her ex boyfriend who she hated so much. She always said he was dead for her and how he had deserted her and so on. Apparently he had refused to marry her at the time saying he didn’t have a job, she should wait, and the routine….

I found out later she had met him on the sly (In another city) the previous week before she announced her intentions,while I was away on business.Anyway shes now doing her journalism course in Australia, while he is also in Australia in another city. She plans to move in with him after this year.

This happened out of the blues and I am really shattered. Just a week before this happened she was telling me that she was the luckiest girl in the world to have me and all the things which people say when they are in love, and then… bang.

Its been two months I cant sleep, cant eat, am a mess at work, don’t think lifes worth living. Whatever anyone tells me, I know it was love, and I cant shake it off.

We are scheduled to get divorced (I still cant figure out for what???) when I immigrate to Australia in March next year.

Do you think theres any chance of us being together again? Is it due to the Mars retrograde period? How..why did this happen ? I have consulted professional vedic astrologers and they have suggested that i should pray to Rahu and things may get better.

If someone can give me some advise i would be eternally grateful.

Thank You.

Posts: 711 · Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 1:51 pm

projenator wrote:

Ashirwad,

Yours seem to be a pretty interesting case. I agree with Inderji on not doing anything rash, DO NOT GIVE HER DIVORCE, rahu in lagna is not a good placement but just one indication cannot make or break a person. I don't see any strong indicators of divorce in your horoscope either, it looks to me this is a transient phase. I see more issues in your wife's horoscope than yours, she is a pretty emotional character and there is some sort of suddenness about her. A few pointers for you, I would not go away for business leaving family for long periods, especially someone like your wife and it looks to me this is the primary cause of her discontent. You seem to be a pretty career oriented person, more in the traditional mould and you need to spend more quality time with you wife rather than taking her to an expensive dinner or lavishing her with gifts once in a while, it is very difficult to figure out everything without giving each side a patient hearing and I seriously recommend that you do a private consultation with a couple HONEST experienced astrologers. In case you need recommendations, pm me.

think, strategize, don't loose heart, just be patient, time will heal.

hope that helps

One more followup suggestion, start consulting divorce lawyers, off course without your wife's knowledge and see how you can get away without alimony in case your wife stubbornly sticks to her divorce plans, since these days I see a ton of cases in india where indian women are threatening divorce to extort alimony( all that 498A shit and other new regulations) and from your wife's horoscope, this can very well be the case. I honestly wish that you two reunite but in case your wife sticks with her flings(she is a pretty emotional character, remember, therefore defies logic), you need to start safeguarding yourself