That's exactly what I meant all along and I can guarantee you from the analysis I did, she is not the wife personality, at least from an Indian context. I was well aware that the puri remedy won't be acceptable to her, so I was insinuating on more western remedies and i actually like priya's idea, except that i wouldn't tell her explicitly that I miss her. Once you are done with your spiritual healing, you might want to consider dating coaches if you want to date such westernized women. If you want to keep up with such women, you have to be always on your feet. I am not sure how that would be possible with a job which involves so much travel, looks unrealistic to me. Give it a thought and pm me for sure.

Finally, don't worry, what goes around comes around, that's the basic tenet of the theory of KARMA. Such people, who are oversold to western values start facing the music as they grow older, you can even see that from the dashas they will go through at advanced ages.

hi projenator,

ur reply and advice are quite practical.

evenryone has a chocie and the law of karma give the result.

that what i feel that ash has his own life to cater to and get the best out of it. he is young a businessman and didnt do anything wrong with the relation.

if her wife wants to move ahead in life, sooner or later he has to understand the reality of his own.

he can bets show his concern to her.

life always has more meaning that we see at first. ash life has someting more for you something more positive for sure. and  i feel you have showed courage and understanding in your own problem.

and as per astro projectnator and i have given u clues already.

Showing concern can be taken as a sign of weakness by such women like his wife/ex-wife (not sure but don't mean to be hurtful). If she ever cares to find out( believe me she will, through common friends ), I would tell her stories of the great time I am having with other women, even show her some cards, gifts etc. which the women I am dating currently are pampering me with.

I personally would be more uncaring to such women but I know it's easier said than done. They will get paid back in the same coin, believe me but it will take time and you might not be witness to it.

Dear proj & Priya

After all things said and done , we are back to square one. We have advised him of all we can with astrology as prospective. Now it is up to him to learn from his karma and face the crisis head on and with honour and pride.

Regards

J.s.sandhu

THE TIMES OF INDIA, 17 Jun 2008, 1825 hrs IST,PTI

Expressing concern over an increasing number of divorce cases flooding the courts, the Supreme Court on Tuesday observed that the Hindu Marriages Act had done more harm to the family system in the country than strengthening it.

"The Hindu Marriages Act has broken more homes than uniting," a vacation Bench of Justices Arijit Pasayat and G S Singhvi observed.

The apex court regretted that the growing number of divorce cases in the country was having a disastrous effect on children of families which get broken in such a manner.

Enacted in 1955, the Hindu Marriages Act which had undergone several amendments till 2003 contains various provisions for validity of a Hindu marriage, restitution of conjugal rights and divorce, the latter being a concept evolved from the English law.

"Even at the time of marriages, anticipatory divorce petitions are being filed," the Bench remarked sarcastically.

The apex court passed the observation while dealing with a petition filed by a divorcee for seeking his child's custody.

"Ego should get dissolved for the sake of the child," the Bench remarked even as the separated parents tried to air their views.

The apex court told the separated couple that it was more concerned with the welfare of the child, rather than the mutual recrimination between the two.

"Ultimately the child suffers. If it is a girl the trauma is more, particularly at the time of the marriage of such children," Justice Pasayat speaking for the Bench observed.