Hello Ria,
Hello there.
Reverting to you mail of 18th,
You seem to be well aware that your 7th Lord is in 8th,afflicted by 12th Lord Mars,as also Rahu, the combination of Sun with Mars,affliction of Venus,Rahu being in 4th House of General Happiness,nevertheless
it looks like your Love for him is strong. Love can conquer mountains, and in Gandharva Vivaha, you are perhaps aware that no matching need be done when there is no other selfish motive than genuine Love in marriage. The Love factor has to be really strong.The Ascendants being 7th from each other, your Sun conjuncting his moon are
added factors, the Upapadas are again 7th from each other which reinforce your love.
I can only suggest that you should fast on Thurstdays from sun rise to sunset after praying to Lord Vigneswara and Lord Guru ,and on Saturdays utter the Hanuman Chalisa to appease the
Great Lord Hanuman to take care of the effects of the Sani Bhagwan.
I see that marriage is also on the anvil . I wish you the very best .
Om sri Sai Ram,

Thanks Amarnath. This msg gives me some hope. Im learning astrology through this and other sites and have gained some knowledge.

To clarify, No, im not in love with this guy. Though i have known him for a long time, I have not developed any strong feelings for him. It is more of a Need based relation. Im desperate to get married and that is the only reason why im still with him. Due to my age, choices are limited for me. But, im definitely fond of him and I know its the same with him. I have loved in the past (my history is available on different pages in the same site) and know the difference.

Thanks again for your analysis.

Ria,
     would like to add my two cents, try to control your temper, harsh speech and passion if possible, listen and think more, that's where you can use free will, wouldn't you agree ?


regards,

Proj

Thanks Proj. Yeah, my temper and sharp tongue are my biggest negative traits. Im trying to control it.