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I am not Astrologer....but I will give you some advices that will work instantly.

First of all, we respect every Religion, so the fact you are Muslim will not prevent you from anything, we are just looking at the request to see if there is anything we can help with.
If not, We don't post "we have no help" because that might prevent other to step in, the request will rather stay empty, but as said...has nothing to do with race or Religion.

When 2 people live together they learn each other.
A good relationship has to build on mutual respect and hopefully love.
If one of the part, loose the respect and love for the other part, it is always best that a divorce happen.

This will give both part the option to seek out new partners, which might bring a happier life to them both.

If you love you wife, then I can understand that it hurt, but she have chosen to leave you...you better respect that and try to get back on track...don't go around and have dreams about her...accept it and start concentrate about your work and life.

If it is your pride that is hurt, then forget it, there is lots of other who have experienced the same...concentrate about your life and you will soon get new options.

You yourself is the only one who can change your own life.
If you don't put it up as an task, then you will only go deeper and deeper in despair, which lead to negative signals to your surroundings and you will have a hard time to find someone who want to share your future with you.

The star might give you prediction on what you can become...but if you yourself don't work for it...then it will never happen.

Life gives many "setbacks" to us all, that is our lessons.
It is our task to defeat those setbacks and grow and that can only be done by putting up goals and let thing that can't be changed go.

I wish you good luck, life is a struggle for many of us, and I am sure there are millions who have it worse then us 2..so you just find your focus, and go on!!

thank you so much for the kind words..But sir some astrologer had predicted that this marraiage will last for a long time and it is not she that left me but i left her...She was a manglik though so i am so worried that that will impact my life as i was a single man when i married her and i even did not have a marraiage/engagement broken

YEA!!!, BUT that is what I tells you....neither you, nor your earlier wife is Robots....You both have free will.....your wife has used hers "WILL" to to go out of a marriage....which was predicted to last much longer....You must use your free "WILL" to get back on track and create a new future for yourself.

The only bad impact this divorce has, IS if you go around thinking it will have a bad impact, then you will fulfil your own fear, and suffer for it.

Nothing can bring your marriage back, so stop being desperate, you create your own future, use your brain for positive thoughts, and you will se your next marriage last much longer!

Good luck.....if any Astrologer have anything to ad, they will do so here, but You start your turnaround NOW!

Dear Mr.Murtuza
While I am sorry none of the members could respond to you earlier perhaps because
of  preoccupation, please be rest assured that on this Astrology forum, caste creed or religion has no role to play. It is a forum for learning.
Now coming to your vedic Astrology Chart, you were born in Uttarabhadrapad Nakshatr.
Here are some basic observation in your chart.
You have Kalaamrit Yog[KAY] in your chart where all the planets are hemmed between Rahu and
Ketu, and Rahu Ketu is 6-12 axis.Since the Lagn is situated outside the Rahu-Ketu axis, the effect of KAY will be milder but still exists. This will give you mental unrest besides health problems, and some problem in finances which you will overcome. People with such configuration tend to turn spiritual after age of 43.
Then let us have a look at the Transits. You have Sade Sath due to the Transit of Saturn now
In Leo.This adds to your mental unrest.Luckily the Natal Jupiter is placed in Leo giving you the ability to /withstandovercome the problems.The moon is situated in 11th House or House of gains which is advesely affected.
Let us have a look at the comatability between your Horoscope and that of your ex-wife. As per Kuta System the score is 10 which is considered very poor. This marriage had to take place
and the Mon-Sun, Venus-Mars, Lagna-Lagna between yours and that of your ex is not good.Ketu in your 12th house and Mars in her 12th House is again not a god placement at all. Your 7th lord is inflicted by malefic planets in your Rasi chart. Your Venus is in Gandantha Nakshara. These are a few unbalances in your chart, and Divorce was inevitable. I think you should start seeing the positive side of things.
I find that you are running Rahu Dasa which was responsible for the break up. This Dasa will end
In August end and thereafter you will be running the Jupiter Dasa till end August 2024 which is definitely better. Since Jupiter is sitting in the Badhaka House,the results will come a little late
but you need to persue and will eventually be successful.
Now that you are aware,what you require to do is to charge yourself up. Pray to the Almighty to give you the strength and you will turn victorious.Have confidence in yourself. You are a capable guy.
Cheer up.
Avam