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Posts: 5 · Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 7:15 pm

Hi there,

I have been married now for 4 years with a son who will be 3 in June. Since I was pregnant, I have not had a physical relationship with my husband. This was partly to do with the fact that I was pregnant but basically, we have had a bad marriage with a lot of verbal abuse from him. I got so upset, I defended myself this way. I had to live in a joint family with very interfering members and I came from the West and lived alone - then moved in with them to India. Added to which I was married at nearly 38! I cannot work since my son is so small. I have a fine career and money in the West before I was married - now I hardly get any money from my husband.

Please can you tell me how to improve my situation? My husband is completely controlling. I worry of the impact of divorce on my son. My DOB is 29/12/65 8.55 am, Calcutta. My husband is 20/3/66 9.02 pm, Delhi

Thanks

Sheila

Posts: 711 · Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:05 pm

Sheiladi,
I really appreciate your noble thought, at least the way you are trying to seek counseling before giving up on your marriage, who does that these days ? I will try my best to help you with my limited knowledge. I strongly recommend that you visit astrologers at Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan (the great astrology researcher K N Rao's astrology school ) in Delhi. If you cannot google out the address and phone numbers, let me know. I will appeal to some of the more experienced folks on this board to comment as well.

with my limited knowledge, I am seeing some issues in the marital aspects of your husband's chart but I or we(in case the others are willing to help) will need time to work on this. Also I don't want to scare you rightaway and discuss this with more experienced folks first.

hope you understand. Please don't take hasty decisions. I am younger than you but I respect the sanctity of the institution of marriage, hence the appeal.

kind regards,

Proj

Posts: 4815 · Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 7:42 am

Hi Sheila Chaudhuri,

I will attend your query as soon as I am able to make time and mental space to be able to.

Hope you are still available at the Board. A confirmation would help me.

RishiRahul

Posts: 5119 · Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 1:49 pm

Sheilaji,

I have read your post carefully. I am a psychic and hence can help only psychically. Just post your problems in the psychic forum and give your husbands full name (yours is sheila chaudhary likewise that of your husband), his age and where he is at present i.e. in which city do you both reside.

I can tell you one thing certainly. If you quieten your mind and meditate daily for even 15 minutes 3 times a day you yourself will be able to deal with the matter easily. Nobody can argue or shout at a person who has his mind controlled through meditation. In fact that person would look a fool and might fear to even talk to you negatively, such is the strength of a person who meditates daily. For guidance to how to meditate just refer to meditation and mind control forum.

I give you one example. If there is a serious quarrel in a joint family or a group of people just send one innocent child in that quarrel and all those who are quarelling will stop immediately for they would be ashamed to do so in the presence of a child who is nearest to God as the child is innocent and already in Alpha Level.

God Bless You.

Pravin Kumar

Posts: 68 · Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 4:25 am

Hi,

I share your concern.

It appears you are about 4 months older than your husband as per your details given.

Is it correct? If so, details are

Your
29/12/65
8.55 am,
Calcutta
88 24 E
22 34 N,

Lagna, Kuja, Sukra (Makar)
Sani, Chandra (Kumba)
Rahu (Vrishabha)
Guru (Retro) - (Mithuna)
Ketu, Budha (Vrishchika)
Ravi (Dhanishtha)

Husband
20/3/66
9.02 pm,
Delhi
77.12 E
28.38 N

Lagna (Mesh)
Rahu, Guru (Vrishabha)
Ketu (Vrishchika)
Sukra (Makara)
Chandra, Sani (Kumbha)
Ravi, Budha (Retro), Kuja (Meena)

Good period is starting after Jan 2009. Please worship (only Namaskar) Lord Hunuman (nearest temple) on every Thursday & Sunday with 5 white flowers each time for 7 weeks. See the result yourself.

Shubham