I wud like to knw as to what can be the ill effects of marrying within the same nadi. and are there situations where effects can be milder?
have also sent my sisters birth details for marriage.
can anyone pls advise on when r her marriage prospects.
birth details
date 10th june 1980
place mumbai
time 11.40am
star bharani 3rd padam

Hello there,
You have raised an interesting point on Nadi Maitri or Nadi Kutam. Here goes.
Nadimaitri or Nadi Poruttam:
Nadi in simple terms means pulse. In Ayurvedha the pulse of people are felt to find Out the disease in people. As per Ayurvedha, our classical Indian Madicine, there are three broad types or classification of people, as per Nadi and they are Vata or Windy constitution or temperament, Pitta or Bile constitution, and Sleshma or Phlegm constitution. So a boy of Windy constitution or temperament shoud not marry a girl also of the Windy constitution as this will result in an adverse or malific combination,while
if they belong to diverse or different Nadi they will result in benific combination.
This results in happy married life when the Nadi of the boy and Girl is different.
The Vata is also called as Adi Nadi, Pitta is Madhya Nadi and Sleshma is Antya Nadi.
The 27 stars are grouped into these three Nadi classification.
In the Kuta system of matching, 8 marks are allotted to this aspect and hence Considered important.
Now the result of matching the boy and girl in the same Nadi group as per sage Maharshi Varahamihira is as under.
1.If the boy and girl belong to the most unwanted or Pitta or Madhya Nadi, then death to the Husband is supposed to be the outcome.This is supposed to be the worst match.
2.If the two fall under Sleshma or Antya Nadi then the result is supposedly death of wife.
3. If the two belong to the Vata or Adi Nadi the result will be short life to the wife.
It is also found that when other afflictions are present in the two horoscopes, the Health of the couple and their Children are also adversely affected when the couple belong to the same Nadi.
There are exceptions indicated by reknowned Astrologers which I wish to share With you. The Nadi Kuta can be ignored if:
1.Rasi and Rajju poruttam prevail.
2.The same planet is the Lord of the Janma Rasi in the two charts.
3.The lord of the Janma Rasis of the two happen to be friends.
Also there is another collorary if Nadi poruttam is not present based on the
Nakshatra.You are aware that there are various padas of the Nakshatras as for instance Aswini Pada 1 or 2 or 3 or 4. Regrouping into the three Nadis is done based on the Padas of the Nakshatras as under.
                    Vata                             Pitta                     Sleshma
           Aswni1 Pada              Aswini 2nd Pada      Aswini 3rd pada
After this we start in reverse order as under….
                                                                           
           Bharani 2                   Bharani 1                 Aswani 4th

Continue from Bharani 2 as under

         Bharani3                     Bharani 4                  Krittika1

Reverse again

         Krittika4                      Krittika 3                    Krittika2

Continue from Krittika4

        Rohini1                       Rohini2                       Rohini 3

And so on…….
Hope the grouping is clear.

So it is necessary to go into details of every poruttam  than just the scores.

Also I am of the humble opinion that the other aspects like longitivity, interplanetary Aspects, progency , upapada matching etc are also very important before arriving at the compatability.

As regards your sisters Horoscope, I shall be replying shortly.
But the most important thing is faith in the Lord and prayers.
Meanwhile wishing you the very best,
OM Sri Sai Ram
Amarnath

Dear Amarnathji

Thanks a ton for making things so clear. Im interested in astrology and am trying to learn details of horoscopes. Your detailed explanation has been very helpful.
Will wait for your reply on my sister's horoscope reading.
Wishing you  a merry xmas and a very prosperous 2008

[quote="dhanyaiyer"]I wud like to knw as to what can be the ill effects of marrying within the same nadi. and are there situations where effects can be milder?
have also sent my sisters birth details for marriage.
can anyone pls advise on when r her marriage prospects.
birth details
date 10th june 1980
place mumbai
time 11.40am
star bharani 3rd padam[/quote]

Dear Dhanya,

In the last couple of years jupiter's transit over the relevant padas were bringing hopes of marriage but those did not work out at the last minute perhaps, particularly after November 2006 (is this correct?). Now Jupiter is in the fifth house (till nov 2008). If the matter pertaining to her marriage has become rather big an issue and concern since nov-dec 2006, then May 2008 onwards, the 6-7 month period is beneficial for marriage. Mid-June to mid-august 2008 in particular are significant.

Her spouse will be someone with a rather intense nature and with a dry sense of humour. Your sister is probably an individual with a high sense of duty, but tends to get stressed at times and may develop a tendency to experience headaches or stomach/digestion upset when under pressure. She has very good relationship with siblings, particularly elder siblings. She is very special to her father and at times overly protected by him (sometimes it turns out to be a father like individual, such as uncle, teacher, grandfather, a brother who is much older, etc).

She may have good language (writing etc) abilities and would do well in government service or in a steady income, stable organizational type setting.

After August 2009, married life will be on a firmer footing and the likelihood of her living abroad or very far away from birthplace is quite likely. She will experience extreme wealth and prosperity.

Dear Rohiniji
Many wishes for the festive season and may your 2008 be filled with happiness.

You hit bulls eye about my sisters life and lifestyle. She was nearly engaged around the mid of this year which broke off at the last minute by the boys parents coz they claimed she has kuja dosham of the highest order(whereas i feel mars in 1st house esp if it is leo asc doesnt have any dosham). correct me if i am wrong. But its absolutely difficult to convince rigid people. They went to the extent of saying we were trying to cheat on them and snatch their son (wonder what that meant). Im ashamed that male superiority still exists in our culture. This absolutely shattered all of us. esp when my parents have always tried never to hurt anyone intentionally.  But nevertheless she has overcome it very well....of course time is the best healer.

You know we strongly believe in horoscope matching and her horoscope was matched to detail with that boy's and it was found to be 80% matching. Then how did this difference of thought arise coz at the last minute the boy sided with his parents. I sometimes feel matching of minds is more important and its more important to be a good human being and have a good heart rather than have a perfect horoscope with all planets in excellent positions.

She is my only sibling (6 years younger to me) and we are very close. whenever i feel generation gap comes in between her and my mom i take over and try my level best to satisfy either ends. she does experience headaches and throat infections as well and it mainly interferes with her singing (shes a trained classical singer). Shes definitely close to my dad and my husband is another male that i know of who really wants to see her  well settled in marriage. And about her language....well thats her profession. Shes into communication and thats her passion as well. She cannot tolerate incorrect grammar. She loves writing.

I just hope that with all your blessings she should have a very happy future and a happy married life.

Thanks so much