HI,
 I am very upset. I am in usa since3yrs and I have been trying to study since 3 yrs on and off and nothing is working out and will i have problems with my husband becoz of his sister and his mother and father. will it ever get resolved. He insist me to listen to them though they are wrong and never accept that they are wrong.will he ever stop listening to them and be nice to me and if so when? will i ever clear my exams  and get into higher education in medicine field. I already have seen my failure in my exams. so when will i get into my career and start earning my bread.
my dob 12 feb 1976, bangalore city, karnataka state,india.
my husband dob-8th aug 1974, born in vijayapur near bangalore, karnataka.india
please eagerly waiting for reply.

Hello RD12,
You need to furnish your time of Birth so that the learned members can try analysing your chart.
Are you living together in US with your in-laws and sis-in-law?
Can you also indicate the date of your marriage?
This would help in analysis.
Meanwhile be bold, have faith in the Lord. Somethings happen because of our Karma
but you need to use Astrology in a positive sense to understand and overcome the Problems.
Just remember that there is always a solution to every problem and it requires effort
from everyone concerned.
I think you should not let worries come in the way of your studies.
Anyway, cheer up.
Let us hear more from you
Amarnath

thank you amarnathji, for your advice and suggestion.
my dob is 2-45pm, born in bangalore, 12feb76.
my husband dob is 1-05 am ,born in bangalore.8th august 74
well my in laws & sister in law are not staying with us. they are in india. but their one phone call will disturb us.
my date of marriage was on 30th may 2004
please let me know, I am eagerly waiting for the reply

Hello RD12,
Here is an analysis of your relationship based on your Horoscope.
The Kuta agreement between the two is very good with a score of
25/36 .
This is not only factor that must be checked. The Lagna-lagna, the Upapada-lagna
Match well. Your sun coincides with his moon which is good attraction.
The interplanetary checks of Sun-Sun[spiritual bond],Moon-moon[emotional bond],Venus-venus [love and sex bond]are areas of concern where improvement is required.
The areas that need attention are Mar-venus which are 6/8 from each other showing no Karmic bond.
Based on your Nakshatras, Ascendant signs, UL,moon and sun signs, venus signs,your approach to married life is to be examined. Talking about the problem areas,
it is found that you take even small problem to your Heart, and bottling up your feelings,
you tend to suffer and endure. You try avoiding confrontation and facing the problem head on. You need freedom and Independence. You have a Dream image of an Ideal Husband which you
always try to compare with your Hubby.  You are unconventional in thoughts. You are loyal and
steadfast in matters of love.Ofcourse you have other excellant qualities which I am not highlighting.
Your individual Horoscope when checked from Marital Angle has Mars in the seventh house
of the house of Jupiter-Saggitarus aspected by Saturn[vakra]. This creates mild dosham and minor problems
in marriage associated with it.
The UL,AL and A7 are mutually well placed showing good marriage[srimantha yoga]. You do need to take care of your Health.
Your Horoscope does show problem from M-in-law[moon],Venus[sis-in-law] and Jupiter[Guru,
or elderly person in his family] when seen from your UL.much less from your f-in-law.
Also the sustenance of marriage[2nd from UL] shows no major problems though there is Rasi aspect of Saturn and Mars.. The eighth house of mangalya Sthana also shows no major threat.
Now let us have a quick look at his Horoscope.
He sure is an intelligent guy,hard working,presentable, charismatic guy, who can be irritable at times, and has to learn to slow down and not try doing everything himself. The position of Mars in the 4th does show some strong influencing aspects of his parents. He takes time to forget any
Harm done to him which is sometimes called “Elephants revenge”. Otherwise a nice guy who
will come up in life. He looks for mental stimulation than physical.
Taking these aspects into consideration, I find that both can be flexible, with live and let live
Policy,capable of meeting each others needs. So what is required is a stronger love bond.
I find you are running the Sani Dasa, Ketu Antra Dasa till end June 2008. The Transit Sani
Is aspecting your Ketu. Sani is in your ascendant.Hence I see problems till end June 2008.
Thereafter I find Sani Main Dasa and Venus Antra Dasa better which goes upto 2011 september.
Show more love and tolerance viewing things from his angle. As far as his family is concerned,
I think you should be more tolerant and not make mountain out of mole hill. I am not saying that
They are right all the time. It is only out of love to your Hubby that you can win over the situation.
As far as Astral remedies are concerned, I think if you can fast on Wednesday fro sun rise to
Sunset it would be fine.
Do let me know your views on the power of prayers and if you could find time to say a couple
of prayers to strengthen your bond.
I think you should see the positive side of the whole thing and with some genuine effort, things should be fine.
Yes, I am a terribly positive person with a positive approach to the problem.
My prayers for your happiness.
Om sri Sai Ram.
Amarnath

Thank you Amarnath ji for your time  and analysing our horoscope.
I do agree with lot of things you have mentioned abut me and my husband. But i do have a question? well i was told that right now I am running Sani mahadasa and  Shukra antardasa from 2004 to 2008. So i was wondering when it was shukr dasa why do we have arguments and why i am not able to pass my exams? but you mentioned that i have Sani mahadasa and Ketu antardasa. so i am CONFUSED which dasa and antardasa i am in?
   well, you mentioned that transit Shani is in my ascendent. well i dint understand that becoz right now shani transited to simha rasi and my ascendent is mithuna and mithuna rasi. so i am really confused abut this .
 well, I do believe in prayers. but sometimes when u pray and things dont seem to look better. I started doubting and accepted that i have to undergo my karma. sometimes even god cant help though he wants to help. But i never give up and even at times i have given up temporarily but god has gifted me persverence though i fall i might take sometime to get up but i do always get up. but somewhere in corner of my heart i am scared that what if i am tired of trying and give up.
        Amarnathji, you really helped me to analyze what i am. I am very happy after reading your reply i feel so much better becoz its like seeing youself in the mirror. I would definetly fast on wednesday and will do  prayer. Actually i do chant the song, BRAHMAMURARI SUROCHITA LINGAM. I do see god through shiva and lakshmi. Astrologers have told me that we do pray god also according to our horoscope. Maybe i have guru in my tenth house so maybe i believe in lord shiva.
         Can you please predict abut my higher education and carrier in US. Right now i am preparing for USMLE licensing exam. I also failed once.  Astrologers told me that i will fail but i will do my residency. but when?  I would be happy if YOU could analyse my chart and tell me abut my carrier and higher education and what year? I am also scared that i am 31 and going to be 32 in feb and worried  abut children. well people have told me if i have child before i clear my usmle steps . Then i cant study becoz i have to take care in Us and here you dont get any help from anybody including husband. so will i be able to do my exams and get into residency or will i have a child ? or will i have a child now and have break in my studies & carrier
Thanking you, Amarnathji.
RD12
My DOB 12 feb 1976, 2.45pm born in bangalore.
aridra nakshatra mithuna rasi mithuna lagna