Namaskaar Vivek ji,
my heart seems some what joyful after reading your reply. it is hard to find a person in ones religion hwo knows the gurus let alone know there history, so on hearing your words i feel moved that some people still remember the scariface.
by dashmesh, are you talking about the tenth sikh guru? i have tried searching but cannot find any link between grahas and sikhism.

Namaskaar Badal ji,
The sacrifice will always be remembered as it is one of the most sad but an example for all future humanity, which we all would do well to emulate, if not by laying our life for protecting another faith atleast by repecting them.
All rivers ultimately merge in the ocean.

Who else can be Dashmesh. The illustrious son of an illustrious father.
Some research was carried out by Pundit Sanjay Rath and one of his student. It is given in his book 'Vedic remedies in Astrology'.

vivek

Namaskaar Vivek ji,
you are truly gifted with words my friend, you capture the very heart of the action. i wish if only everyone knew what it means to respect others, to understand that we are not competing against each other. the world has a long way to go vivek ji, to understand the true meaning of love and respect.
i will surely take your advice on worshipping Dashmesh pita guru Gobind Singh ji. i know this might sound feeble, but i have seen many people use the word worship, but wat actions do you relate to the word?
and finally vivek ji, i will burden you for the last time with one last query. i have read that birthstones arent very reliable remedies, what is your take on this. from my chart could you tell me what stone will suit me best.
thank you vivek ji

namaskaar Badal ji,
Worship the way you find comfortable and at peace.
The best way i feel is to remember His words and follow them in 'Letter and spirit'.
My take on this is to offer the elements that make up my existence to the deity, the deity will purify them and return it as Prasaad. This is mostly internal and sometimes external implements are also used.
If you find the Shiva Maanasa Pooja Stotra just read its meaning and you will know what worship to do.

Gem stones are effective but have their own limitations. They affect the Physical more than any thing else s they are Physical objects.
i feel yellow Sapphire wll suit you. Wear it in a Gold ring on your right hand ring finger.

vivek

Namaskaar Vivek ji,
i thank you once more for all your advice and guidence. all the time you have spent over my chart and my queries have been amazing and proof of your pure heart.it is good to know that there are people among us who help others by going out there own way. once again vivek ji, thank you so much. hopefully if it was meant for me, i will get my true love back.

thank you faithful friend.