I have posted this message under the Western astrology forum as well..desperately looking for any information..

I have been married for almost 3 years now to a wonderful person. He's everything that I could ever ask for- ours is a love marriage. I am 8 months pregnant now..

Before we got married he did tell me that he and his best friend really liked each other other since college( a girl whom he knows for almost 10 years now ). But since both of them couldnt tell each other, it remained unrequited. She is married since 2002 and is blessed with a 4 year old daughter and that was the worst period my husband had to go through.( he has venus in the 12th house)

Both moved on, I met my husband at work- we are very happy with each other. Problem is his best friend and her husband /family dont get along and have frequent disputes and she comes crying to my husband. I know they are friends..but this has started to bother me a lot. I know that my husband loves me a lot but I cant help feeling insecure and that maybe she was the right one for him and I fear that a lot.

I dont know if I am just acting silly or my pregnancy hormones are acting up..  

This has been troubling me a lot recently ad is really causing me mental turmoil..

I really am lost and dont know what to do..:(

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Really appreciate any insight..

Can you find out her time of birth and her Husbands bitrh info so that she gets the help and which will help you to calm down.  

As a pregnant woman you shouldn't go through this and it can affect the child. You tell your husband to get the birth details of both of them so that he can help them better.

Hi Sivas,

I did manage to get the details of her  and her husband.

Her

If anyone could please suggest any remedies if required to help both of them, It would be great..

I dont know how I will pass it on to them, but surely will (just like I got the details ..

Rishi Rahulji..could you help?

Hi, According to my calculations her husband's Laagna is Vrishaba  and his nakshatra is Shravana. His Lagnadhipahy Venus is in the  6th house(Thula).  For Venus the positions 3,6 and 8 are hidden(almost like neecha).
His Saturn is in the 12th hourse(Aries) and it is neecha. So I believe he is a very  weak person and doens't have self confidence. Her Sun, Mars, Rahu and Mercury are in Thula with his Lagnadipathi Venus in HIS 6th house. This make him much weaker.    

Her nackshatra is Mirugasira and it is in the Vrishaba. After the last Saturn transit the Saturn has come to the unfavourable 4th house from a favourable 3rd house to  her natal Moon. And the Jupiter is alos to transit to Dhanu in a month from the favourable 5th house to unfavourable 6th house.   For him the saturn has moved to the 8th house and the Jupiter is going to mov to the 12th house. So for both of them it is a testing period.

It could be that he has some problems at his work place or even might have lost his job and very frustrated. Although they are compatible according to the Nachshatras they are not compatible according to the planet positions.    Since his lagnadhipathi  Venus is hidden in the 6th house and (also the KALATHRAKARAKA)  and aspected by debilitated SATURN it is very difficult for her to live with him.  They may be living seperately in the same house without enjoing the marriage life.

I wouldn't have approved this marriage.    

Your husband and she don't have Thali compatiblity and they couldn't have married even if they wanted to. Their planet positions and excellant and they understand eachother very well. One may be able to know what the other person is thinking. Their Lagna, Sun and  Mercury are in the 5/9 positions Her moon is with your husband's Jupiter and her Jupiter is aspecting his moon.  These positions make them to feel comfortable to each other but it is not sufficient to have a marriage.

Your rasi is Kataka nad you are going through the 3rd 2.5 years of Saturn periond and for him the 1st 2.5 years has just started. Last 3 years the Saturn was in the favourble 11th house from his rasi. Since this is the beginig of his sadasathi the time is bit difficult  but it will be alright after a few months and once you get the baby you should feel ok. Your husband's mars strength is weaker than yours. You are more agressiver than him and als has ego. If you get angry please drink a glass of water and calm down and don't pull your husband. Be patient and quite. Everything will be ok.