The following is what has revealed from my study of the chart: =

Firstly your brother got married 2 years back as you had mentioned, which come to 2005.

Secondly this is not proper schizophrenia, leave alone the dangerous types. This is correctable and temporary, if dealt with well.

Presently a reason for this kind of behavior is over sensitiveness to adaptability too. The problem has stemmed due to certain factors from 2002.
If it is not affecting their conjugal life; and their general life should be obviously somewhat affected, then the problem should not be interfered with much. Psychiatric help, if any, should be taken with her consent, but that could alarm her and take difficult proportions.

Such people during such states are brashly oversensitive, probably more so being a woman. She can understand even by the others body language how he/she is feeling about her, and she reacts! Behave absolutely normally with her and let her enjoy the natural green, which is pleasant to the mind, eyes and senses. Maybe you/others who will listen to you should be counseled to be very ‘NATURAL’ with her. RohiniRanjan's wisdom speaks again !
There is a  also something called non verbal communication also (which is silent). When you are communicating with oversensitive person with powerful instincts, you should keep in mind that they can sort of feel if you not mentally natural with him.
One should not constantly worry over the matter while communicating with them… just let her be with the natural greens… at ease.

Her moon dasa started giving adaptation problems with her own mind too; added to this was 2002/3, with the moon in a twin natured sign with fickle minded mercury making it worse.

Again I had seen a powerful environment change and expected the main problem to have started then, that is 2005/2006. You confirmed that 2 years ago they got married. So the environmental change understood which made adaptation problem worse to deal with, due to situations occurring in 2002/3, whatever be it, which is a sensitive issue for her. I would like to firmly make it understood that she is trying her best to adapt and deal with her problem.

You must have seen in my detailed predictions in this forum that I have a method of going into a persons mind, while seeing a chart (which is explained in the profile of my website); and I am confident.

Again she is facing a factor called charakaraka displacement, where the permanent atmakaraka gets displaced by another one, and I expect it to happen around age 28, but will take proper effect from 2008, the onset of her Mars dasa.

Again I do not confirm readings from only one method, but use numerology, palmistry, western progressions etc. Why I am reiterating is to instill confidence as also I certainly would not like a marriage spoilt due to such factors.

I see the boy suffering much since late 2005, which is still continuing.
The woman is suffering from much aggression in personal life which is obviously internal aggression in this year, due to environment developed mid 2006. Aggravation of this will lead to a change in nature, which is again due to the onset of Mars dasa in 2009, but its effect starting 2008 April/May, when she will not have these moods; the temperament will also change considerably. This dasa lasting for 7 years will prove troublesome for home life. At this time the boy will have a troublesome 7 year period too.

Marriage, since already taken place, personal happiness from this relation should not be concentrated too much upon, at least for the present.

Concentration and focus on having an issue should be the prime, besides the stuff previously mentioned; which has a certain chance in 2008/9.
Also care should be taken for handling her well.

RishiRahul

You had said that "I will make my brother have her wear an emerald ring". What I meant was that she should not be forced to wear a ring (make someone do something is forcing!) but rather something that she should realize will be for her good and accept. Also, just emerald will not do! There has got to be a lot of green surrounding her, green as in colour and not necessarily plants etc.

RR


[quote="siva"]Hi Rohiniji,

I have considered your suggestion seriously and has copied your reply and sent it to my brother. I also spoke to him just now and has asked him to follow what you said about having more greenery in the house. I also told him to keep less of red in the house. Surprisingly he had gifted her an emerald ring last year. I didnt understand what you said by "Having your brother make her wear an emerald would not do it". I thought you wanted her to wear emarald. Am I wrong?

BTW, pls can you let me know how to post privately?

Siva.

[quote="rohiniranjan"]I am so happy to hear that Hanumanji is already in her reality -- and that is a blessing!

Since you posted publicly, I must respond so too!

It would be best if this 'need to protect' and "guard" on the *family's* part could be reduced. Obvious 'judgementality' will surely create problems!

When a family member has challenges, as long as the family is together and not shunning their role, structure or responsibilities, it remains a 'family karma' (extrapolate that concept to communities, nations, etc!)

One can always walk away from it all, but then they are on their OWN!

In your reply there was talk about Hanumanji but no mention of the significant part of my recommendation that had to do with the green! Having your brother make her wear an emerald would not do it!! Please read my message again!!

I have given all the information that you need in my first message to you. Please pay attention to it and act accordingly if you are serious and sincere. No need to prolong this thread further -- unless it is April 2008 already and it is not!

Good tidings ...

RR

[quote="siva"]Hi Rohini,

Thanks a lot for the analysis. I dont know how to explain her behaviour. According to my brother, she is very devotional and chants Hanuman chalisa regularly with extreme faith, goes to temple even in midst of heavy rains does pooja daily with faith. Sometimes I feel I shouldnt make this an issue, but however I try, I just cannot close my eyes against her odd behaviour. I am worried on account of both my brother, and as a woman, about her too. Some where I have a fear it will get serious in future. It is just 2 years since my brother's marriage. It is like, you will feel "She is a normal girl, nothing wrong, but the next moment you see some odd behaviour and you get a feeling, no- there is some problem." She seems to be inteligent and very cunning, but some times we feel she is too innocent and she is doing all these out of insecurity. She feels a deep insecurity in her innermost mind.  

Astrologically, instead of she doing poojas, is there anything that we can do for her? I am asking this because, she is very suspicious and if at all we suggest something, she wont do it. She is very adamant and since i am very close to my brother as a sister, she doesnt like me (possessive to the core), even though I always speak softly to her. She will immediatey sense that it is my advice. I am unable to tackle the situation. I would like to know some remedies which we(my brother and I) can do without hurting her. Becuase, I have always felt she knows that she has some problems, but doesnt have a control over it and hence is unable to rectify it. In this case she might be experiencing conflicts in her mind, which I dont want to catalyse. I feel the case as that of John Nash in 'A Beautiful Mind', though not that serious at all. (She paints very well and is working too, out of my brother's compulsion. So she is not incapable of working.)

I will suggest my brother to make her wear an emerald ring.

Siva.


[quote="rohiniranjan"]Very interesting thread -- particularly in the way it meandered but finally her birthdata was revealed! This should always be the first step in any serious enquiry.

Without making any modern psychiatric diagnosis, just based on a few behavioral features alone (very very dangerous practice!) received on internet, let us look at some of the interesting features astrologically (IMO).

Final dispositor of all planets is mars, the atmakaraka in this chart. Mars is the strongest planet that is placed in fourth house (mind) in own sign (!) and badhakadhipati, disposed by jupiter who is in company of nodes and dispositor of sun and moon and mercury all three of whom are in the fifth house! Being with sun, moon is weak in pakshabala (even though in early bright half!). Sun, in this case is weak in Shadbala, is darakaraka in rashi aspect (mutable signs) with gulika.

Mars comes up again in navamsha in the fourth house in pisces. Mars makes connection with mercury (in fifth with weak and malefic sun and moon). There may have been suicidal tendencies or attempts in the past and the situation generally since end of May 2007, there is need for getting some serious help in this case.

This is a very interesting chart.  In this case ketu is the ruler of scorpio, not mars (I have written ad nauseum about this on web and astro magazines and would not waste bandwidth here!).  Ketu is placed with retrograde and marginally weak jupiter. The third, fourth, fifth and ninth houses are involved which deal with mind, lower and higher. The strength of the life-force is determined through the 2nd house, the house of niyama.

The lord mercury is afflicted on several counts. Being punished by mars and feeding mercury is the remedy.

Strict fasting on tuesdays and Hanumaan bhakti (pooja etc) regularly on Tuesdays and wearing mercury's symbols, emerald, green fabrics, being surrounded by deep green (lawns, outdoors, plants and rooms with green walls etc, green sheets) and as little 'red' in her life as possible is what I would recommend if she were my sister.

If carried out faithfully and in full faith, report-back time would April 2008 to give feedback about improvement!

RR


[quote="siva"]Hi Rishi,

My brother's birth place is calicut, kerala. I have given the latitude and longitude in previous post.

Her details are
21, Dec, 1976
11.51pm
Kannur, kerala.

I am new to this forum. How do I post the palm? You mean the palm impressions?

Siva.

[quote="RishiRahul"]Hi Siva,

The place of birth please, as I do not have lattitude longitude to place converter. Do you have any idea of that.

Also why dont you post her both palms.

Oh sorry, this is your brothers details. No I wanted her( the person with behavorial problem) details.

RishiRahul[/quote][/quote][/quote][/quote][/quote][/quote]

Hi Rishiji,

Thanks a lot for the analysis. I absolutely agree with you in saying that this is correctable if dealt properly. I constantly tell my brother to deal with all his warmth, but the problem is, as a hardworking IT professional working overtime, my brother sometimes looses his control over her nagging behaviour, especially when he comes home tired after work, and gets angry with her. This makes her feel he doesnt love her. But otherwise he is too sympathetic with her. In fact my parents all deal with her as if to a child, not hurting her in any way, though we have been provoked many times due to her bahaviour.  

As per your analysis, what I understand is the coming Mars dasa will be bad. Will having a child lighten the situation, or aggravate the situation? What do you feel? We are actually scared about that.  

Siva.

Marriage already taken place, however, we are left behind with some limited options. I have given the best advice I could offer.

An astrologer cannot alter a fate entirely unless there is effort and adaptation from the side of the people consulting; just like a person going for a psychiatry consultation is not willing to make an effort to change.

One can identify, some occuupation that the female spouse could be interested in. If thee is none, effort can be made to develop it..............so many other.. and ways.

For this effort, time, sharing has to take place.

Going further into more detail I find the effort from the boys part will be much, as he will have make or face some environmental changes Sept, particularly Nov onwards. The change will be able to finally able to place itself between  May 17th. - June 6th. 2008., and a child in 2008 will certainly help. But remember that the environment may not be same as this.

RishiRahul

Hi Rishiji,

Thank you. As you said, involving her in her interests seem to be good option. As you said, there is a possibility of environmental change, as my brother is looking for location change. I will get back to you when the same happens.

Thanks again,
siva