Rishiji,

I am quite fascinated by the way you predicted overseas soujourns for priya and others and hence want you to enlighten and help me please.

I am married and my husband lives overseas. Apparently he is currently undergoing a Shani-Rahu dasha which makes him live away from India, and his family (me, our son and parents) also. Now he is a family man and keeps missing his family but does not know whether he should slug it out there or come back to India.

I am requesting you to take out some time and analyze our horoscopes and PLEASE tell us what exactly is in store for us??

Does he come back from overseas or do we go there?? I am in my 6th month now with our second child, so I dont know what's going to happen.

Sir, please take out some time and clear these clouds of confusion from our heads....

Our details are:

Me
Name - Sandhya
DOB - 10th July 1979
Time - 00:15 AM
Place - Delhi


Hubby
Name - Amit
DOB - 2nd March 1975
Time - 17:30 PM
Place - Delhi

I would be very grateful sir.

Thanks and Regards,
Sandhya

By heart you would have preferred to stay in your home country, but your husband is very career, I mean service oriented. What I mean is that these come foremost in both of your inner mind. This period starting this year is a going to be a tough, but productive and merit building period for your husband for the next 2 years. For him, although he went abroad earlier, his successes in the foreign way start now.

For you, being more home bound and the imaginative type, and very attracted to the children thing (you may feel that I am talking generally, but I am not).

Maybe your children will be with you more than with your spouse. You will have and utililize 2 homes and your husband will be mostly abroad.

Just 2 questions which would convince you and is also important for my better understanding and further predictions:
I find that the date or around 29th. May 2007 was important for him, favoring his mind, for some news, which but slightly disturbed his ego.
Again I find that on or around 2nd. June 2007 was important for you, but the news, though favorable, acted as a speed breaker for you in some way. The dates even may be important, if not a day or two here and there.



RishiRahul

Rishiji,

first of all, THANKS A TON! for taking out time and giving us this precious info, so badly needed.

A few things that I would like to discuss:

1) You are absolutely right when you say that I am fond of my kid (soon to be kids). Intersetingly, my husband is also EXTREMELY attached to his son and the family too. And since he stays far away from all of us, he misses everyone all the more.

2) You have written: "Maybe your children will be with you more than with your spouse. You will have and utililize 2 homes and your husband will be mostly abroad"...... Does that mean I can give up hope of us (me and kids) ever going abroad and staying with my husband or does that mean that he will get a job in India which will keep taking him overseas, lets say, once in 15 days or so. (That is still ok, because right now he is staying overseas and has already become an NRI since he spent less than 6 months in India from June 2006 to now.)

3) Sir, I REQUEST you to tell me exactly what will happen in the next 6-12 months, will we go overseas or not? Our son, who is 5 years old, misses his father terribly.

4) And finally, about these 2 dates that you have mentioned, nothing comes to the top of the mind immediately, but I will check with my hubby and try to remember if anything spectacular happened. All I know that he was still overseas on these 2 dates.

Once again, thanks a lot and I eagerly look forward to hearing from you soon sir.....

SN

[quote="s_candy"]Rishiji,

first of all, THANKS A TON! for taking out time and giving us this precious info, so badly needed.

A few things that I would like to discuss:

1) You are absolutely right when you say that I am fond of my kid (soon to be kids). Intersetingly, my husband is also EXTREMELY attached to his son and the family too. And since he stays far away from all of us, he misses everyone all the more.

RishiRahul=I did not dicount the fact that you husband is not fond of your child. In fact let me add that they will have very good father and child relation which will improve with age. But physical nearness will be a problem.

2) You have written: "Maybe your children will be with you more than with your spouse. You will have and utililize 2 homes and your husband will be mostly abroad"...... Does that mean I can give up hope of us (me and kids) ever going abroad and staying with my husband or does that mean that he will get a job in India which will keep taking him overseas, lets say, once in 15 days or so. (That is still ok, because right now he is staying overseas and has already become an NRI since he spent less than 6 months in India from June 2006 to now.).

RishiRahul= No I did not say that your hopes of joining your spouse will be dashed. You will have two homes at different places.

3) Sir, I REQUEST you to tell me exactly what will happen in the next 6-12 months, will we go overseas or not? Our son, who is 5 years old, misses his father terribly.
RishiRahul= Before I tell you this do let me know what happened around the two dates mentioned by me. I did not mean anything spectacular happened about the abroad stuff only. Nothing spectacular probably happenened. But any incident, even related to anything else? Some incident sutra ego lifting for your spouse, but no so for you. It could be about anything else... home... family.. parents... friends.. child... finance.. anything. Probably nothing spectacular, but stray and unimportant.

4) And finally, about these 2 dates that you have mentioned, nothing comes to the top of the mind immediately, but I will check with my hubby and try to remember if anything spectacular happened. All I know that he was still overseas on these 2 dates.

Once again, thanks a lot and I eagerly look forward to hearing from you soon sir.....

RishiRahul

Dear Rishiji,

Thanks for the clarifications.

About those 2 dates (29th May and 2nd June), all that comes to mind is that my husband, while still in Singapore, had a chance to go to Phuket for some work. He flew from Singapore on 1st June and came back on I think, 4th or 5th June to Singapore.

Rest as I mentioned, I cannot think of anything, really sorry about that. Please do let me know if you need any further information from me for you to do your calculations and predictions.

I would like to mention one thing though, my husband is torn between living overseas and leaving everything and coming back to India. Missing us is not the only reason for that. He also feels a bit claustrophobic in his current job. He feels his problems will DECREASE if he could find a better job and a better profile with a better pay. We also wouldn't mind moving to USA, legally, but are not sure what will happen in the next 3-6 months.

He is due to come back in October 2007 when I deliver our 2nd child.

I hope all this information is helpful for you. Sir, would request you to please help!

Regards,
SN


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