Dear Rishi Rahulji,

I get irritated easily and prone to anger and hostility even if little things dont go my way.I also get depressed easily. I'm usually a loner and dont have many friends. I'm going to be a dad soon and I want to reform myself. I regularly practice Yoga and always try to eat a balanced diet according to my dosha. I have a decent stress free well paying job but still I'm not able to find peace and happiness in life.


Could you please read my chart and suggest any remedy for my problems ?

Date of Birth   : Aug 2 1974
Time of Birth   : 5 :00 PM Indian standard time
Place of Birth  : Bangalore , India
Rashi              : Makar
Nakshatra       : Uttarashad



Sincerely,
Jai Dixit

Dear Jaidixit,

This is not a astrology reading, but I was compelled to write.

First if all..I can see you are very serious about transformimg yourself, That is great, beacuse half the job is already done.

Anger- as I understand and have been guided comes from a feeling of rejection, Huge ego too comes in to defend ourselves, Loneliness  is because we feel we are not wanted. You can change all this for yourself.

1. Feel loved and wanted, beacuse existence loves you. Many a times misery is caused because we humans need love, do not feel wanted. But we are wanted and loved. We can be and are given many oppurtunites to see how well we are looked after, but the 'mind' by nature is negative and repetitve, and only looks for what we do not have. Train the mind....meditate. If you worship anybody- pray with a totality, and beg for guidance. God as I know is full of love, and very generous..you only have to ask. Bhakti can work miracles.

2. The concept of ' life' as you portray it...miserable , painful etc is simply a projection of your mind. As such the universe...good or evil( your concepts) is in total harmony, and if you allow yourself you can be in harmony as well.

3. Very often and almost always pain and misery is created beacuse our mind remains either in the past or the future. The past is dead and will never come back, whereas the future does not exist, only created in your head. Simpy try and be in the moment. I know it is tricky but remind yourself regularly.

Yoga is great, and I believe the purpose of yoga too is to merge you in ' oneness'. And you will make  great dad, just because you are trying so hard !


Cheers

Wear a  5 rati yellow saphire in Gold on  Thursday in the fore finger without fail. You are feeling it as yor lagna lord is retrograde, Debilitated Rahu dasa is on aspected by Mars.

Or are you wearing an yellow saphire already?


RishiRahul

Be cool and calm.

RishiRahul-ji,

Please accept my apologies for the very late response. Yes I'm wearing a 5.2 ratti yellow sapphire stone in gold. Things have improved slightly. I'm praying to God everyday and reading Navagrah Stothra.

Thank you very much.

Jai Dixit