HELLO
SAW YOUR LETTER IN THE FORUM.

YOU SHOULDNT HAVE MARRIED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE. PEOPLE LIKE HIM SUDDENLY GET COLD ON COMING TO KNOW THE OTHER PERSONS SHORTCOMINGS AND FIND IT VERY HARD TO FORGIVE.
BELIEVE ME IF I TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE BETTER OFF.
EVEN THOUGH MARRIAGE IS IMPORTANT FOR WOMEN, ESPECIALLY OF PAKISTAN, INDIA, ETC, BUT I STILL SAY THAT YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM.
IF YOU HAD'NT SEPARATED FROM HIM WHEN YOU DID, THE SAME WOULD HAVE HAPPENED LATER ON.
MAYBE IF YOU KNOW HIS FAMILY WELL , THEN YOU MAY COME TO KNOW THAT EVEN HIS FATHER AND MOTHER HAD PROBLEMS AND MAY HAVE BEEN SEPARATED TOO, (BUT MAY HAVE JOINED BACK) , MOSTLY DUE TO INTERNAL PROBLEMS , FINANCIAL ETC.

WITHOUT CHECKING YOUR HOROSCOPE I WOULD SAY THAT YOU GOT MARRIED UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF SATURN.

HOWEVER FOR YOUR OTHER PROSPECTS, I WILL LET YOU KNOW. PLS REMIND ME.
I HAD FORGOTTEN YOUR NAME AND NOW ON SEEING YOUR DOB I JUST REMEMBERED. PLS TELL ME IF YOU HAD BEEN ENGAGED BEFORE ?
YOU CAN SEND ME A PRIVATE MESSAGE TOO ON PERSONAL THINGS.
I REMEMBER WRITING TO YOU BUT I REALLY CAN'T REMEMBER WHAT THINGS I TOLD YOU .

BYE FOR NOW

SETHI

Sabisha


Dear RishiRahul.

I am sorry. I thought I did.  I will do it more detailed now.

I got married in 2000. It was my first marriage and you are right after year 2000 "happy days, suddenly kind of seemed to be troubled” as you said. We had a lot of problems from the beginning. In 2001-2002 we did changed our residence and something really bad happened between us, which put the marriage on the line, although after that even thing start to get better for a while.
2002-2003 there was an even happened with his family that affects our family not in a good way. So you are right here too. I got divorced in September of this year. By the way his DOB is 13/03/1973
As far as marriage contemplated I am not sure.

So as you see you were right about a lot of events in my life. I am just wondering what is going to happened in my life in the future. Family life is very important to me, even more then my career. I wish to have a family again and children. I am not sure it will ever happen.

Thank you again for your response ----------------------------------------------quote: Sabina.



To Sabisha,
For the present you should quit falling in and out of love kind of thing, a very small possibility being there in March 2007, and will arise after Oct 2007.
From your chart I find proper chances for marriage only arising after 2009.

You need, before this to amend some personality problems: You are very secretive about your personal relations, and probably would not share them with any other closed ones, forming a barrier in a better one to one relation.

You should also quit allowing your sexual inhibitions affect your relations. You have sexual inhibitions. And need to deal with them.

What is the need to find out from your ex husbands chart about his future? In 2006, however, you were very confused in your decisions. I guess that is what you need to know for the present.

RishiRahul

You should also quit allowing your sexual inhibitions affect your relations. You have sexual inhibitions. And need to deal with them.

What is the need to find out from your ex husbands chart about his future? In 2006, however, you were very confused in your decisions. I guess that is what you need to know for the present.

RishiRahul[/quote]

Dear RishiRahul
I guess, what you are trying to say is that I have to loosing up, stop being so conservative in the love life department . It is not that easy for me but I can try to work on it.

Thank you  

Not exacltly. You being a pisces/Aries cusp according to me. I do not go exactly by the western astrology books.
Blending this with Indian astrlogy which I mostly follow: You are more fond of being in the idea of love. Love is an utopic experience for you... they never exist in real life. Again you like to see your lover in royal eyes, and yet you are utopic in ideas of love.

Believe in a proper give and take. Presently this Saturn period you are on is bringing our your fears. through experience. giving you the slowww opportunity to understand and therefore change yourself from your rigid nature. It is a loong process. You have to learn to be less rigid and caustic in your speech, as otherwise your partners wold be affected by your romantic and its opposite natures.

My replies  here are limited to Vedic Astrology in this forum, where I am not able to understand and help you further with the help of the other sciences.

RishiRahul.

I think I know what you mean now.

Thank you for clarifying that for me