Dear RishiRahulji,

Thanks for explaining to me in detail about Badhak and Marak grah's.. Well, I have not had so far since 2006 any marriage contact but last month somebody whom I know (a european ) for 2 years is showing great interest. But things are not clear because he is going thru a divorce so I am simply sitting quite and letting things clear up keeping my frienship balanced.

This is the only significant incident. I am already doing Shani daan every saturday bt fasting not possible.

One more point of discussion why badhak grah's stone is not allowed to be worn even if it's friendly to lagnapati. What happens if badhak stone is worn?????

Thanks for your answer once again.. with regards and blessings.


Tara on Lotus

Hi Tara on Lotus,
If you shani daan heartfully to neady beggars( or beggars that you feel are really needy) so that you feel the pathos and so that the money involved in daan hurts you much ( becomes like a penance) you dont need to do fasting. I dont do fasting myself.

Regarding the badhakshtana graha you came up with a very good question.
See every stone,I believe, has some negative reaction, major or minor. So we choose stones having the least negative reaction to ourselves.
I had told you about the ideal situation which  RohiniRanjanji had also mentiones in his previous writings in Boloji.com.
Two planets are your badhak significators Saturn and venus and both are friendly to you.

1) Saturn is in the sub;ord of the 11th. in the 12th. So 11th. satisfies, but 12th. is stronger. Wearing Saturns stone will give you material blessings, but would be very bad healthwise and personal wise. Would aggravae your skin troubles too.
2)Venus's sublord is the significator of the 11th. too. Wearing a stone will make you oversexed and highten your fondness for the lavish or good things of life., but all matters of affection, love and sex could create some troubles. It is better to wear for Venus than Saturn, but still, I would not advise either for you.
Others Milindji and all could share their feelings here. I think this stone thing is a very interesting thread and we all could gain by further insights from you.
RishiRahul

Dear RishiRahulji,


You are right even i do not think that I should wear the stones of Saturn and Venus but feel can try white coral to strenthen my mars...any suggestions from anyone??

Following 100 percent theory you should not wear a diamond.
You should wear a pearl according to me. A gomed would do good too according to me.

A red coral would do fine.
RishiRahul

Dear RishiRahulji,

Sorry for not posting my reply earlier to you since I was travelling....

Whay do you suggest to wear Red Coral....isn't my MARS IS BADHAKESH????/

And Meracury sitting in 12th house signifys that I had evoked the wrath of my Ishta dev by talking bad or verbally insulted the deity???

Hope I am nt wrong about it???


With great regards

Tara on Lotus