Dear Jenee,
Your Venus is powerful and well placed to do good in your chart both as:
1. 2nd lord (wealth) in 11th (gains, income) and as
2. 7th lord (marriage, spouse) in the 11th.
3. It is powerful in Shadbala and strongly placed in its own sign in D-9. The 12th house placement in D-9 shouldn't bother you - of all possible planets placed in the 12th house, only Venus is considered comfortable because it is it's natural house of exaltation, since it coincides with Pisces.
4. It is also in the nakshatra of Bhagyesh Jupiter and that will increase its ultimate auspiciousness.
5. Note that it is 7th lord (marriage) from both janma lagna and Moon lagna, thereby increasing it's significations.
6. The delays in money and honey are mainly due to Saturn's aspect on both Venus AND the 7th house from BOTH lagna and Moon lagna. The good thing is that the aspect to the 7th house is exalted and that to the 11th is it's mooltrikona rashi.
Jan 2009 onwards will bring you plenty of both things you currently seek. You will gain from your marriage and do well for yourself. Remember, gain is of many kinds - happiness, peace, money, opportunities, love. Post-marriage your long harbored dreams will steadily begin to come true. But for Venus to manifest, you must first embrace Ketu's karmic lessons in pursuing life's true answers
God bless.