WOW Phantom...I really appreciate this,...but it's going to take me a bit to take it all in---I'm confused because your findings are SO different from what I got.  I guess I have a LONG way to go as far as learning!! ;)

Just a "couple" of quick quest:  What software do you use if I may ask?
"Who" would be considered MOST important to pray, do Poojas, etc. Sa, Ma, Ra, Ke ,or Ju?  Or ALL??
With the situations with Sa, Ra and Ke being in the houses that they are--(and please don't get me wrong here--I haven't recovered fully from losing my Love of my life)--should I just forget about ANY future relationships...in other words, perhaps it's just NEVER been "in the stars" for me to have a "normal" relationship?
I'm supposed to be having MAJOR surgery again soon---such as within the next 3 weeks---is this not a good idea?
Another "student" told me a few weeks ago that she thought my Ishta-Deva is Gauri/Durga, she didn't, however, tell me how she arrived at that...is it in this chart?
Because of the placement of Chandra, Rahu, Ketu and the Sade-Sathi-->would you advise and specific practice for tomorrow--the Eclipse?
I KNOW that's too much for you to respond to..perhaps others could help me out here???
Thank You SOO Much!!!
Namaste!
elaine

gauri will be your ishta devi only if you have moon connected to 5th house

in general , planets in 5th, 5th lord ,viewing 5th decide ishta deva (in that order)

since jup is your 5th lord and placed in it with saturn , your ista deva will be SHIVA

you must have already realised that further relations will not help you, so ignore them

if surgery cant be avoided, how can we decided if its a good/bad idea. leave it to fate.

you will start recovering from 20th april, physically and mentally

your chart looks simple, but when i tried to study deeply, it showed too many complications. you've seen most of them already and are now getting ready to lead a peaceful life