Dear knowledgeable folks,

My humble Pranams.

I fell in love with a girl and got married to her. Things are not going very well after marriage. Since it was a love marriage we never really paid much attention to horoscope matching. Infact my wife's mom was not keen as the horoscopes did not match at all. I still went ahead with the marriage because I really love her. I do not regret the decision of marrying her. However after marriage me and my spouse are having lot of troubles. We are basically incompatible as per our rashi/nakshatra match. She often gets depressed and my tempers are not under control. Though we still love each other very much there is not much happiness in our lives. I'm trying hard to keep her happy.My mother-in-law again consulted an astrologer and the astrologer suggested that this marriage should not have happened in the first place as the kootas or points are below average.

I want to save this marriage and I'm willing to go the extra mile.
I want to keep my wife happy even if I'm not happy.

I can follow any suggestions like wearing stones, changing names, reciting mantras, offering stuff to deities etc.

Now even with my will power and for the sake of love will I succeed ? Can this question be answered by looking at our charts ? What's in store for me ?


My details
2nd Aug 1974
5.00 PM IST
Bangalore, India

Her details,
June 24 1976
7.30 AM
Bangalore, India

Thank you

Sincerely,
Jai

And please note that I'm NOT trying to test/experiment with astrology here. Like I said in my previous post I have the will to save my marriage even though I made a mistake of marrying a girl whose horoscope does not match with mine. I just want to know if any there is any remedy or I just have to live with it. Or will I even be able to live with it ?


Your inputs are greatly appreciated.

Jai

On the broad outlook I don't see any break in the marriage. Basically both of you are running the same dasa period. The marriage would be troublesome and unharmonious.  Pray to Hanuman and recite Hanuman Chalisa. ASk her to recite Vishnusahasranamam daily. Feeding cows and doing Go puja daily would ward off all the evil that may be instrumental in distrubance in marriage. As already mentioned by the matching may not be quiet favourable for marriage. Now that it has happened, only prayers could certainly help you . Family after 2010 would be good and things may try to change after that. Both of you try to take a visit to Koke Subramania or Thirunageshwaram and perform pooja. Prayers to Vaishnavo DEvi would certainly bring some harmony in life to both of you. There is nothing like surrendering to GOD and seek his protection. Have Utmost faith in the GOD almighty who will protect you in the days to come. You go some extra miles towards GOD and he knows what is good for you and make your life happy

Thank you very much Sir. Its indeed heartening.

Sincerely,
Jai

Govardhan sir,
your words abt surrendering to God holds good to all the suffering souls.
thanx for tht

Jai,
all the best for a happy married life.