Dear All,

First of all thanks for the forum.

I am loving one girl and arranging marriage plans.
my/her parents shown jadagam to jyothish, he said important porutham "Reju" not matching, that is mean for long life.So please dont join both pairs/jadagams.After that parents are very againts.I asked many places any parikaram for Reju porutham, everybody telling no parigaram.
If anything is there we can tell our parents and do the pooja and we will get marry.. basically i am also having very trust in jadagam.
Please give me the Reju dhosham parikaram list, this is very urgent please.If any solutions you know i will be very thankful...expecting your early reply....thanx

Regards
Ram

If you are in love there is no necessity of seeing any horoscope.  if you believe in astrolgy to do your marriage, then your love is not real. If you believe in your love, then astrology is not a foundation for you marriage

So first decide and firm up

whether your love is real?
or

you want to go only by astrology


A man can never have duality of thought and he should be firm in his belief
A man cannot have two beliefs

Hi govardhanvt,

Thanks for your reply... i know when i am in love i should not see jadagam. I agree and stoped that one when i statred love. But the same way i want to marry with parents approval and blessings. They asking jadagam matching or other work arounds... If you have any pooja's or parikaram... with all blessings our marriage will happen... Tell me if you have any parigaram for Reju Dosham..

Regards
Ram

You cannot have the cake and eat it too

It is purely man Management or you can call it as Human Resources Management. Astrology if you need to get love cum arranged marriage , then it could be possible , if you work on it eventhough Rajju is not matching. First go to the eddifice of the problem and analyse. Later  go to the astrologer and see whether you are destined to marry  and then ask for whether  it is arranged and love marriage and then it get solved.

The decision is yours in the first place. In the first place decide whether you both intend to marry. After all  it is the life of you both. If you both decide to marry , no force on earth can stop  you both . If both of you have the confidence you can wait, and show utmost patience in life then both work on getting the parental approval from both side sincerely . You can get married. Sorry do not feel I am going tangent to question. For success in love getting ended in marriage the basic eddifice is determination If  you both are determined you will  succeed and live happily together, with confidence, conviction and boldness to face the consequences in future. If that is not there mutually , no matter you try involving other then  marriage will not  succeed could land up in more confusion and cofoundment

Marriage is an institution with all the 7 qualities, aarth , kama , loba ,dhan sampathi , moksha etc are to be achieved

Faith can move mountains. If your love is platonic , then it cannot end in marriage

Hence the only Parihaaram for you query on Rajju not matching, is that you  determined and take steps with answer to any one of the two queries.

1) Whether you both to go ahead with marriage whatsoever it be even if your parents object to it?

OR

2) Whether you wish to be  friends in the rest of your life by accepting to your Parent's wishes and not to go against their wishes and taking clue from astrological guidance

Either way God will bless you both

MAN PROPOSES GOD DISPOSES

Hi govardhanvt,

Thanks a ton for your detail explanation. Understood, surely we will wait and get marry with parents blessing. We will get parents approval with aceept all (what ever jadaam)... thanks a lot for your valuable answer..

Regards
RAM