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Kuja Dosha means "Mars condition", usually with reference to Kuja's effect on domain-7 and marriage.  

Kuja & Mangala = Sanskrit = Mars

Dosha  = Sanskrit = "condition".

In traditional Jyotisha interpretation, "Kuja Dosha" causes marital stress due to excess warrior energy in one partner.

Kuja Dosha is read from the rashi (D-1) , from Chandra lagna, and as additional verification it may be confirmed from navamsha (D-9).

Natal:

Kuja Dosha is formed when Angarika resides in radix domain-12, domain-1, or domain-4.

The competitive, domineering, penetrating, and warlike (win-or-die) behaviors of Kuja thus cast drishti upon radix yuvati bhava

Chandra (janma) lagna:

If Mangala also casts drishti upon the 7th from Chandra (for first marriage) then Mangalika effects are doubled.

If Mangala also resides in 6th, 7th, or 10th from Chandra, then Kuja-dosha becomes an exceptionally strong negative effect in marriage.

When Mangala casts drishti upon Chandra, aggressive words or actions are directed toward the native's own sensitive emotional core.

This native is already competitive or critical toward oneself, having internalized aggression from a parent (probably Mother), and thus the compounding effect of the spousal aggression (overt or covert) may be quite unbearable.
Navamsha

If Kuja dosha exists in natal, then Kuja's placement in the 12th, 1st, or 4th navamsha will strengthen Mangala's competitive-domineering effect.
Mars in house-1 and house-7 tend to be self-promoting  in relationship; career is important.  

Mars in house-2 indicates harsh speech, may always be threatening  to leave if their needs are not met.  

Mars in house-4 reflects an unstable home life, with war or cold-war between the parents.  Often lots of house-moving, construction projects, or conflict in family home.

Home conflict can be overt or covert depending on the sign of Mars.

Repressed conflict more likely when Mars is repressed in a rashi of Shani  

Expressed conflict more likely when Mars in a permissive sign of Guru/Surya

Mars in house-8 can indicate an early death of the mate; makes native accident-prone too.  

Mars in house-12 = hidden passions & deeply repressed anger, will eventually erode the fabric of marriage.  
Mangala in Mercury's signs (Virgo and Gemini) is verbally aggressive. In Kanya,  sarcastic & critical although painfully accurate. In Mithuna, "conversationally invasive"- can be a compulsive talker.

Mangala in swakshetra (Aries and Scorpio) is the huntsman and the deep miner: muscular and penetrating, with a burning instinct to Win. In Mesha, physically responsive and self-referential; in Kaurpi, psychologically aggressive and controlling.  

Mangala in the Chandra rashi (Cancer) is emotionally passive-aggressive. Often compulsively manipulative, trying to sneak, trick, defraud, or get away with something. This is the most difficult rashi for Kuja. If in Ashlesha in domain-4, the native was manipulated by an unstable mother in early childhood, and is typically unable to sustain a non-manipulative adult relationship.

Mangala in Shani's signs (Capricorn & Aquarius) is a social rule-enforcer. In Kuja, "rules of the jungle" - native is a captain of industry but treats one's spouse like an employee, seeking "business objectives" for the marriage (primarily, increasing one's social rank through spousal support); in Kumbha, "rules of the assembly" - native sees the spouse as one friend among many; may interpret fidelity as a group experience.

Mangala in Shukra's signs (Taurus & Libra) instinctively seeks a physical and social basis for relationships, but may drive too aggressively toward sensual  experience and compulsive re-engineering of new agreements. May not be able to leave well enough alone.

Mangala in Guru's signs (Sagittarius & Pisces) enforced knowledge. The native is generous and inclusive, but only if others do things in one's own way.

Mangala in Surya's sign (Simha) aggressively promotes one's the integrity of one's own reasoning. The native must be proved right.

Mars with Rahu/Ketu: sign-and-house character strongly amplified

Most normal people are fairly well-balanced adults, parents, citizens... Kuja Dosha's Martial characteristics rarely reach the criminal extreme of physically annihilating the partner.  

Normal human moral development provides checks & balances within the ego which allow Mangala's natural vitality to flow in safe & creative but vigorous ways.  

For example, neechha Kuja (Karkata) is passive- aggressive & prone to emotional volatility.    

Yet, when this same miserable Karka-Mangala occupies the janma lagna, Kuja becomes a "yoga karaka" or a graha of highly auspicious significations. As yoga-karaka for Karkata lagna, Mars becomes the ruler of lucky domain-5 and dignified domain-10.  

So, the 25%-strength of Kuja dosha which is generated when Kuja rises in Karka,  is compensated by native's strong character & good fortune.  The native may not have a perfect marriage, but their spouse shares in the benefit of the native's public dignity and auspicious children.  

The biggest single improvement in Kuja dosha comes from the aspect of a benefic onto Mangala himself or onto yuvati bhava.  

Aspects from Vrihaspati are very curative, giving the person a fundamental generosity & goodwill toward all.  

Beneficiaries of a Guru drishti include the beleaguered spouse because Guru's drishti upon Kuja improves the viewpoint and expands the sense of humor.  Marital Anger is still present but it feels much softer and becomes bearable through laughter & overall goodwill.  

Aspects from Shukra or L-9 upon the marriage house are also softening & pleasing & will also improve the experience of living through marriage with Kuja-dosha..  

Even the aspect of Shani on either Mangala or the 7th house will give longevity to the marriage.  Although the partners will be oppressed, they will be loyal to their vows & the marriage painfully long-lived.

Psychically, Kuja Dosha indicates that we choose as our spousal "mirror" a native who shows us irritating, adversarial truths about ourselves.  

No one likes to see this type of immature, aggressive, selfish Martian behavior in themselves.  

However, if one has Angaraka Dosha from house-4 or house-12, the chosen spouse is karmically responsible for providing precisely this type of mirror.  

It may be helpful for the Manglik to consider that they are battling an image of their own self, when they think they are battling some undesirable trait in the spouse.  

Usually marital bliss is still possible for a Manglik but they must be willing to accept responsibility for their aggression, and admit that they are acting out a struggle that originates in internal conflict, within themselves.  

Marriage therapy - and studying one's own D-1/D-9 - can be helpful to awaken this essential consciousness.