Arranged marriages can teach us a great deal, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 4397 · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 4:15 am

Dear Rishiji, and Rutoji,

i wish this thread should be locked now for the good. I dont need any more arguments here. I think, i have the liberty to request u , Please do not mind, or take this my order. i am really feeling sad for entering this THREAD NOW. Really i wasted my time. My dear husband sankarji ever tells me, do not enter into any threads ,which can bring u into controversies, and proj too requested me, not to enter here.Sorry i dis obeyed them .I never intended to show up my writing skills. I think everybody knows this here.

Thank u all.

Regards,
prasanna.

Posts: 5118 · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:54 pm

Dear Friends,

I just read some of the posts and not all. My personal experience is: For those who have successful arranged marriages they will praise it. For those who have had successful love marriages they will be for it. For those who have unsuccessful arranged marriages they will feel love marriage would have been better and vice versa. It is difficult to understand which is the better one.

I do not agree with forced marriages though long time past in India we did hear lots of forced marriages. This happened long long time back. The prestige of family was taken into consideration in such marriages. It so happened that men promised each other that when their children grow up they will be married to the other of the opposite sex and this was followed to keep up the word of the elders and even then there were successful marriages for the elders always supported the young couple and sorted out the problems. Off course there have been disputes and bitterness also in such cases. So there is no full proof method by which you can be sure to have a successful marriage.

Being Spiritual I have heard my Guru saying many a times that whatever you face in this world is the result of your past deeds, whether it is marriage or anything else. So this explains whereever there is success and also where there is failure or pain. I believe it. Perhaps others may differ but this topic will have endless discussion as there is no fool proof method to know which is the right path to follow.

Pravin Kumar

Posts: 711 · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:12 pm

Thanks Pravinji for this apt summary, in fact Jhanviji alluded to this in her apology post as well. I would appreciate if we stop this discussion here. My sincere apologies if I hurt anyone, that was not my intention at all. I should have thought more maturely that this could bring hurt to others before starting this, lesson learnt.

My sincere apologies to all and sundry, once again.

Posts: 4397 · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:14 pm

Thank u so much for your nice explanations here pravin ji.

Regards,
your beti ,
prasanna.

Posts: 4815 · Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:44 pm

Jhanvi wrote:

Auntyji, thanks for the write-up. But i feel now ur adding fuel to fire that is trying to get extinguished. I am a well-respected female, and patience is something i practice daily. And no offence, but i would not be taking advice abt being an Indian woman from you. I am my own standard, and i am human. It is far better to practice first wat you preach. With that, i hope you would stop talking abt this. We have all learned, we will all grow from this. I admitted my mistake, and i am sure Projjwal has also learned, along with others. Let's move on.....

Hey Jhanvi,

I have been blessed, I feel, to read the unspoken words....

There I always felt that you are blessed with humility and patience.....more in comparison to others when your age is considered.

Any comments on the 'Grahayuddha' and sani mangal conjunct in Cancer and Leo ( the house of moon and sun respectively) in the offing.... I am serious.. and I am not at all referring to the arguments in this thread, though I did previously also.

I am not predicting gloom and doom only, but sharp changes/realisations in individuals and countries, particularly ones ruled by the abovementioned signs.

Come on Sandhji, Projenator ji, Prasannaji, Avamji, Suryanarayanji,Dada, Vivekji and others and Jhanviji!!!???

Help us give a healthy twist to this thread.

RishiRahul