[quote="Rhutobello"]I don't think you understand my view.

First of all....we allow all people to as for advice, we allow all people to give advice.

When we give advice, we can understand that people don't follow them, that is their choice, but if you don't want to follow the advice, then just not neglect the answer, tell why you think the advice is wrong, tell why you think you must have another answer, give new information.

If you don't interact, but just put up the same informasion again and again, on site after site, it will be spotted from people who are travel around the net helping people, and you will have a hard time to get any help at all in the end.

You must not believe to much in Astrology, astrology might be to help in life, if used the right way, as an inspiration and goal setter.

BUT BUT BUT!!!!! You and I and all other have a free will and that is what makes your task so hard.

You have now used your free will to leave USA.
You have used your free will to surf around on the net to ask for advices.
You have used your free will to neglected all those advices given, and to go on asking for advices.

So from this you can see that our free will is the stronges thing here in life, not any birth chart, not any Astrology Reading, but Your free will together with your interaction between other people and their free will.

So my advice to you both, and to all who read this is, use your free will to evaluate your life.
Use your free will to put up goals for yourself.
Use your free will to fight for what you believe in, if it is your marriage, well then sit down and think it true, What made you end it? are you willing to go on with it? If so what must your husband do? What are you willing to do? and when you have made up your thought, then start a calm conversation with your husband. Tell where your marriage failed, tell what he need to do in order for you to go back to him. The main thing is that you both have a converstaion, that you both know about each others feeling, and maybe your trip to USA was a bit to early in your marriage, but none of these answers do you find in any star...you can only find them by using your free will to look for them.

You say he has nowhere to go?
Why? he has a free will....he has to put up goals...he must use his ability and his funds to move to the place where you both can be happy.

If he don't...if he wait for the star to move him....well then he has NO FREE WILL and he is stuck where he is, or where fate leade him!

Good luck![/quote]


And just to add my two copper cents to your golden post, Rhutobello, people sometimes misunderstand what free-will is. They should not think that free-will is some kind of power which will overrule all else. No that is not how it works, in my observation. Free will will not change what has already happened or got done (or not got done in many cases). Like the wise chinese stated: Even ultimate freedom comes with limits and boundaries! There are natural laws and all would need to operate within that framework.

Free will is not a power, it is a decision! It is action vs inaction. Sitting frozen and expecting things will just happen as they are supposed to is not just absence of free-will, it is also absence of action.

Then some ask: But what then is the point of astrology if free will is supreme. Another misunderstanding! Astrology is the map and navigation tool. However even if someone is equipped with the best touring wagon, has the best gps navigational tool, maps galore and all that - one ain't gonna move out of their drive way or garage if they do not apply freewill and turn the car on! Once free will has been put into action, then astrology begins to help one.

Astrology for instance may help one decide intelligently when is it efficient to take the land rover and when the bike or walk or just take the train!

Okay so a few more extra copper pieces fell out when I opened my mouth ...still not enough to buy a cup of coffee!!

Respected Sir/Ma'am,
                            I along with other astrologers, have not only studied Murtuza's horoscope but have exchanged messages with him as well. If a MAN divorces his wife if she misses him in a foreign country, I think I would rather not comment but could not stop myself from doing so when ridiculous accusations are made against actions of well intentioned gentlemen. I copy and paste Murtuza's confessions in his very own words below. He has been counseled by all and sundry to reunite with his wife and not let her suffer further if he truly cares for her and things will improve in a year or so. I am not sure how someone sane can interpret this as ridicule. or is it the debilitated saturn which also happens to be the yogakarak for the native's lagna.


From:   shl153
To: projjie
Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 10:08 am
Subject: Re: regarding murtuza sayani Quote message
hi,
now i even cannot phone her as i find it difficult to talk to her..she keeps crying and i cannot bear her..
i cannot live with her neither can i live without her..further i have blemished her in front of my family..she is so innocent that she thought that i am bringing her back to india to spend time with her..whereas i was always complainig about her to my good friends..she has come to know about all this...still she cannot do without me'
somehow i feel i am better of without her
i cannot talk on a responsibility of taking so much care about her..i actually have no time and my business was suffering..further she has become very quarralsome alsso which i could not take at all
her only complain was i had no time for her but had time for everyone else...she may be true but she had become very possesive also

so i am now very confused

I hope I am not repeating myself but long ago when I was kind of cutting my teeth on the rope of reality as a young jyotishi, I began to do something just for the heck of it! When I accepted a case or was sufficiently interested in it (tried this in face to face, letter-mail and email mode requests as communication modes changed over time!) I used to draw an indicator chart. Over some experimentation and fine-tuning, the chart often helped me in shaping my reading, counselling, interaction with the nativity and a variety of other useful information. Sometimes the little personal practice gave very useful information and caveats etc.

I will probably never write publicly in details about this experiment of mine but you are all intelligent and worldly-wise. Give it a spin, if this extra step does not represent a lot of extra work for you.

Obviously, the more serious and sincere the setting of the reading, as general horary rules go, the more telling this chart will be, I presume.

Ciao

I found that advice very useful in this case, so I wanted to pass on the benefit to others in this forum, albeit in a politically correct way without lot of explanations. While one of the more experienced members in the other forum talked about fear psychosis and his "own mental creations", I advised him to overcome his mental frailties by developing inner strength.  

That's exactly why I wrote a post addressing all members of the forum(take it or leave it) earlier this morning.

thanks and kind regards,

guys thank you all so much for making my issue so very prominant and so very important aspect in your so very busy life..i take it that i am no longer welcome at this forum....i will not be writting in any more...but i cannot ask my ex wife not to write in as she is very impressed by some of the predictions made here

especially in the horary forum by Rohini ji and Rishi ji..spot on

so bye and thanks a lot guys