For the benefit of all members (take it or leave it)

I along with other astrologers have worked on this case in other discussion boards and he has been counseled appropriately. My findings were vindicated by some more experienced astrologers on these boards. I even replied to his private messages but as Rhutobello aptly pointed out, he is seeking confirmation of not only his thoughts but actions as well and is expecting everyone to agree with his actions.

While I don't mind more people trying to help him out, I just wanted to make everyone aware that quite a few folks (inexperienced and experienced) already have had a shot at it which obviously was not to HIS satisfaction, otherwise he would not have painted this and all other towns red, posting his request in different forms and shapes.

Hope all will understand.

kind regards.

i am really surprised that people have pointed my genuine concern as painted town red...my main concern was thhat being a muslim we do not follow astrology and we say that it had god'd will in it..but again i say that even marriage had god's will in it..
my only concern was whether i or my ex wife will have any ill iffects in terms of ther life in the future..

could be i was unable to put forth the question nicely and in a proper manner
i thought thta i was genuinely asking for help

i was getting some really nice answers but all had astrogical terms which i could not comprehend
i spoke to astrologers who have all given me differnt views
so i thought of asking here

sorry if i am bothering you all

I can understand your frustration IF your concern was genuine and you would accept the advice given without asking again and again.

I can understand that your situation aren't easy, but there are no simple solution to it, and no reading in itself can fix your problem.

By doing it this way, you destroy for many that comes behind you, because you have misused many people kindness.

I am not saying you have done this, in order to be cruel in any way, it is just that you don't accept advices given...and then you rather should have investigated an Astrologer you would trust, made an appointment, paid for the request, and then you could toward this Astrologer have discussed your case.

There is many thing that is written in the star, but as said, we have also our free will, this might lead to another development then the star thought, and maybe this is one of the cases.

This is shabina writing on behalf of my ex husband...


i have paid twice and good amount too

`1) 1st time before marriage my father in law spoke to his astrologer who predicted that 25 gunas were matching..however he took me for some vidhi in which i was married to vishnu bhagwan
also my ex husband was made to do some vidhi for kSY

that was before marraige

also before marriage one another astrologer whom my ex consulted had said that this marriage will not work for more than 8 months and he was aware of this and i came to know of this now

after coming back from USA i consulted my sister in laws private professioanl astrologer in Lamington Road..he told me that this marriage could have worked for max of 3-5 years but it is better to end it right now

after getting so many diverse opinions i and my ex started to write here at this forums so that if any one could tell similarly we could believe...i know now we are divorced and nothing can be done
but the pain is something only we will experience

hence when so many terminologiges were written we asked for some kind of explainations so that we could be at peace in our minds

This is not something we wanted to publish..as it is a privte pain not for public
but when it is unbearable we had no option


Hope now e will not be mocked her..
if u want please tell me not to write further in this forum ..i will understand

I had asked some other quetsions regarding my parents and sister..but may be that too may be mocked

so now i have no where to go to

he is in us and i am in goa where i have no clue as to who is even an astrologer

I don't think you understand my view.

First of all....we allow all people to as for advice, we allow all people to give advice.

When we give advice, we can understand that people don't follow them, that is their choice, but if you don't want to follow the advice, then just not neglect the answer, tell why you think the advice is wrong, tell why you think you must have another answer, give new information.

If you don't interact, but just put up the same informasion again and again, on site after site, it will be spotted from people who are travel around the net helping people, and you will have a hard time to get any help at all in the end.

You must not believe to much in Astrology, astrology might be to help in life, if used the right way, as an inspiration and goal setter.

BUT BUT BUT!!!!! You and I and all other have a free will and that is what makes your task so hard.

You have now used your free will to leave USA.
You have used your free will to surf around on the net to ask for advices.
You have used your free will to neglected all those advices given, and to go on asking for advices.

So from this you can see that our free will is the stronges thing here in life, not any birth chart, not any Astrology Reading, but Your free will together with your interaction between other people and their free will.

So my advice to you both, and to all who read this is, use your free will to evaluate your life.
Use your free will to put up goals for yourself.
Use your free will to fight for what you believe in, if it is your marriage, well then sit down and think it true, What made you end it? are you willing to go on with it? If so what must your husband do? What are you willing to do? and when you have made up your thought, then start a calm conversation with your husband. Tell where your marriage failed, tell what he need to do in order for you to go back to him. The main thing is that you both have a converstaion, that you both know about each others feeling, and maybe your trip to USA was a bit to early in your marriage, but none of these answers do you find in any star...you can only find them by using your free will to look for them.

You say he has nowhere to go?
Why? he has a free will....he has to put up goals...he must use his ability and his funds to move to the place where you both can be happy.

If he don't...if he wait for the star to move him....well then he has NO FREE WILL and he is stuck where he is, or where fate leade him!

Good luck!