I HAVE SATURN AND PLUTO IN MY 7TH HOUSE SO WILL MY SPOUSE BE LOT YOUNGER TO ME
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Saturn in 7th house
      There may be the  tendency to  attract older,  more serious  partners.
      Partnerships  may  involve much  duty, responsibility  and hard  work.
      There may be a karmic tie from the past to the partners in this  life.  
      Whatever the case, there  may be  a feeling  of restriction,  bondage,
      depression and anxiety in your relationships.   They certainly  can be
      enduring, though.
 
      Saturn  here  indicates you  need to  learn to  cooperate with  and to
      develop empathy for others.  You are perhaps cautious  about marriage,
      but, when committed, may find it very difficult to leave your marriage
      partner, even if you are unhappy.  You may  marry for  security rather
      than love. Discipline is needed in relationships.
 
      There may be a very self-controlled and sometimes calculating attitude
      towards all forms of partnership. You are inclined  to seek  a partner
      who will awaken your sense of  responsibility and  give you  a greater
      sense of  purpose and  will to  succeed. For  a woman  there may  be a
      subconscious desire to marry  a "father  figure" and  the partner  may
      well feel an urge to organize your life on a more effective basis.
 
      The responsibilities of marriage  or the  fear of  marriage may  delay
      marriage.  If Saturn is well aspected in your  natal chart,  then this
      position usually indicates that  one loyally  abides by  marriage vows
      and faithfully carries out  marital duties.   With a  well placed  and
      well aspected natal Saturn, the partner is likely  to be  a person  of
      integrity, faithful,  steady, reliable,  industrious, persevering  and
      economical,  perhaps  not over-demonstrative  and preferring  deeds to
      words, and providing a real anchor for the partnership.
 
      If natal Saturn is badly aspected, then there is a tendency to  endure
      an unhappy marriage rather than to lose face  by breaking  up. If  you
      neglect  to  make  your  partner  happy,  your own  happiness will  be
      affected in the same proportion.  This position can also mean a second
      choice marriage, which endures in spite of boredom, unhappiness and  a
      lack of love. In other words you may have wanted to marry someone else
      but settled on a second choice instead.  The partner may act in such a
      way  as  to become  a burden,  and may  be uncommunicative,  narrow in
      outlook, cold, and over-critical.   In some  cases the  spouse may  be
      much loved, but prone to ill health.  Marriage to a  widow or  widower
      is possible.

hi,

I have a question on this. Well, my lagna is aries lord saturn(retrograde) is exalted in 7th house while he's the lord of 10th and 11th house. what does that means? pls advice............