Matchmaking according to me is to find whether the horoscopes of a male and female for is favaourable for marriage.Is there a method to find whether she is the one for you?

YOur question " Is there a method to find whether she is the one for you?" is one sided You could have asked it another way are the couple made for each other. Why do you want her to be one for you . Don't you think you should also be for her? When that happens marriage is happy. Marriage is an institution. It is like two wheels of a cart.  Marriage requires  the equality of the partners in repect of Dharma, Artha, Kama , Lobha and Moksha.

Now coming to your question, it is not very difficult to identify whether both are made for each other astrology Superimposing of the horoscope of both the boy and girl  one can determine whether both are made for each other.

In vedic astrology there is nothing which can not be determined. In broad preceptives the marriage compatablilty determine whether one is made for each other. But deeper analysis comparing the bhagyasthan, karmastand, dhanasthan , 7th and 5th house taken together, would give the necessary answer to your question. Those analysis are not normally carried out by the modern day astrologer due to paucity of time and for the reasons best known to them.

Matchmaking is not only about the Compatibility of Horoscopes but also about the Effects both will get after Uniting both the Horoscopes.


Matchmaking is of two types,
1. GUNAMELANA
2. PLANETARY POSITIONS
3. INDIVIDUAL HOROSCOPES AND PLANETARY POSITION STUDY
4. GOCHARA NEARBY MARRIAGE DATE

1. GUNAMELANA - The Matchmaking by GUNAMELANA is about finding, Sexual Compatbilty, Emotional Compatibility, Family Life, Personal Attitude, Friendship between two People (Compainion Compatibilty) and Family Tree etc. Here we calculate, no. of GUNAs (POINTs) after comparing BIRTHSTARs (NAKSHATRAs) of BRIDE and GROOM with considering CHARANAs.

A minimum of 16 GUNA are required for a Marriage out of 32 GUNAs. More the better. Same RASHIs/NAKSHATRAs give upto 32 GUNAs.


2. PLANETARY POSITIONS - 1s House for Native's self, 2nd House for Family Life, 4th House for General well Being, House and Related Issues, 5th House for Children and Romance, 7th House for Sex Life and Related Pleasures and 9th House for Bigger Gains and Benefits are needs to be taken in Consideration. Here the Astrologer should try considering different aspects of the Planests with Partners Horoscopes.

For Example, Lord of 1st House is Mars in Boy's horoscope is Mars and in girls Horoscope Mars is in 6th or 8h House then there are chances that both may have frequent Quarrels leading to Problem in Marital Life.


3. INDIVIDUAL HOROSCOPES AND PLANETARY POSITION STUDY - A complete Study of Both he Natives will give a correct Solution considering the separate Analysis for Horoscope related Problems.


4. GOCHARA NEARBY MARRIAGE DATE - The Gochara of Both Bride and Groom needs to be taken in consideration while fixing the Marriage Date to avoid complication, Before, During and After the Marriage.[url][/url]

Dear sir,

i have received the following horoscope from bride`s father. request to advise whether the same matches.

Girl details

DOB 25-11-1985
TOB 4:30 am
Place Bangalore

Boy details

DOB 8-4-1979
TOB 14:35
Place Kolar - Karnataka

regards,

N.R. Srinatha

If she costs too much, then maybe might not be the right one.