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Cedars - I was wondering if I coul trouble you with a question. I have taken the rest of your reading as key advice. You are right in that I am overly dependent on men, and it has driven me down a futile course. I am satisfying myself at the moment, and really enjoying spending time doing fun things in the daytime with new and old friends and acquaintances. However, I have been recently emailing back and forth with some guy. Not sure if it is best to just cease corresponding with him and just focus on my key prorities, my startup business and my social life and enjoying it for me and cutting men or anything to do out as I just don't seem to know how to engage in that area in an emotionally balanced/healthy way - and just trust that one day, maybe fate might bring that into my life, but I just need to abandon it and conscious efforts at this moment in time to stop wasting my time and effort uncessarily. What do you think? don't worry if you don't have time to commment, or this is too much to ask.
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This is my personal view and it is not a reading. We cannot detach ourselves totally from life and society, not to mention our feelings. I would not suggest that you call it a day with men. By all means you can interact, communicate and even socialise with this guy; just be aware that he does not take over your life and total attention. Dont do it intentionally, like some form of a mind game to make him crawl to you; just do in a relaxed manner being fully conent within yourself with your other activities. All I am trying to say gently and politely, it may help your progress not to make him the top priority in your life whilst you are getting nicely with your friends and, more importantly, trying to build your business. If he is meant to become one of your priorities, you will know it.
Listen to what Temperance is telling you.
Hugs and all the best.