Many thanks for the time that you took out of your day for my reading. Of course I am not disappointed with the reading, you cannot control what is conveyed.  I thought I'd give you some feedback in regards to the accuracy of your reading. I. Have recently had my hopes dashed by a suitor or seeming suitor. I have had bad luck throughout my whole life in love (or more accurately had lack of love). I worked for years on ensuring that I focused on self development etc vs relying on another to 'complete' me. I thought I had reached stability, and approached dating this man with a casual attitude. We had a bizarre bust up over politics (literal politics, not emotions) and parted ways or more accuratley we seemed to resolve our issues, for him to never contact me again. Ahead of the 'resolution' - he behaved  aggressive during the dispute and inappropriate in the way he handled the situation and I know that he wasn't the man for me owing to this, and also as our views are diametrically opposed to each other- but it has re triggered my old issues of low self etc, and made me feel (even though I know it is just a phase), that I am 'back to square one' and "worthless'. I am angry with myself for having these sort of exaggerated thoughts and repeated sleeplessness nights over someone that hasn't even given me a 2nd thought and has treated me dismissively and with a lack of basic courtesy and respect. I am trying to focus on what I do have ie have survived a threat of 4th redundancy, own my own flat at 27 in central london, am self made, am setting up a business, have great friends and a god social life ans support system, but I still feel as though I am 'not worthy' owing to never having have. Had a relationship and men typically just running for the hills from me. I know that I have to wholeheartedly believe I'm worthy before engaging with men etc, but I guess I am finding this concept easier said than done @ the moment. Anyway, sincere thanks once again. R

Sorry for the typos in my last post. Owing to blackberry.

You are welcome my dearest Ridge. Whilst the cards kept coming up, I started thinking, Oh, my lord, she is not going to like this reading or it is not going to be to her satisfaction. But I had to continue with what was given. Reading what you have just said in your in-depth feedback for which I do thank you, you have nothing to worry about your self-worth. You are articulate, confident and a self-made success story. He does not deserve you my friend and I am not saying this in order to make you feel better.

I can see where the Five of Swords comes in here; despite your telling him to get lost and cut him out of your life, you still do not feel you have achieved anything and still feel vulnerable and not totally 'victorious' about things.

Learn from the steadfastedness of th Emperor and do not be in such a hurry to find all the answers (The High Priestess). Do what you think your instincts tell you is right. If you fall and falter, put it down to life's experience. But you are NOT unworthy of love, but let it be someone who really desreves your love.

The right person will come to you but first you need to find your inner balance which will come to you. Things never stay as they are.

Hugs and have a wonderful summe in the heart of London.